Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma is a dating advisor and life coach - showing men and women how to be more successful with dating and relationships by honoring their gender strengths...
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Carlos Xuma
Thanks to Scot for sending this over… I love it when he goes on dates, because it’s so cynically true. - Carlos Xuma(PS: I highly recommend you NEVER do this!)
Carlos Xuma
David Black sent me this cool video to release to you, and in it he discusses some of the “attraction factors” with women. The birds must love the accent, mate…! What...
Carlos Xuma
Just saw this article in Time. I think this is a reason so many guys have their work cut out for them, with so many parents “wussi-fying” their kids. Even their girls! The Growing Backlash Against OverparentingThe insanity crept up on us slowly; we just wanted what was best for our kids. We...
David Craft
David Craft
Where are the leaders? Sorry I am one man who does not see this as a Mom problem but as a Dad problem. If dad's were fully invested in leading their families instead of abdicating in favor of Mom, would we be here now? I think not. If irate Dad's showed up at the PTA, would schools be where they are? Let's focus on the root of the problem no matter the source. Wake up men!
December 5, 2009 at 10:09am
Carlos Xuma
Guys, I’ve got a few tips for you here on the use of profile pictures. Most of the problems I see can be solved by just avoiding these mistakes. These are actual mistakes I see daily as I review my Facebook friends requests. ...
Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma
A lot of guys don't realize these mistakes... check it out...
November 20, 2009 at 7:27am
Waldo Aucamp
Waldo Aucamp
I'm sure this avatar does the trick right?!
November 20, 2009 at 10:24am
Claude Petion
Claude Petion
thanks Xuma..
Mon at 11:47am
Carlos Xuma
I had to post this one… simply hys-terical!
Sherrie Rose
Sherrie Rose
Hysterical!
November 18, 2009 at 3:05pm
Carlos Xuma
An Alpha Brother (thanks, Carl) sent me an article this morning. Thought I’d post these interesting stats for you guys. Look, it’s not a competition – but you need to stake your claim! Need any more proof it’s a woman’s world out there? Check th...
David Craft
David Craft
I disagree. It's not "proof" it's a woman's world to me as much as a comment on women picking up the slack left by a lack of real men in their life, in business or in general.

The most common comment I get from women is they're tired of waiting for men to step up whatever their "excuse" is and they're going to do what they need to. Nature abhors a vacuum. When it's a lack of leadership from men, who's left to fill it in?
November 15, 2009 at 2:39am
Lord
Lord
Does reading fiction make you smart?
30% of Maths PHDs are men, that means 70% are male, an improvement but still leaves males way ahead.
1 Legislature is made up of a majority of women, so how many are made up of majority men?
November 18, 2009 at 3:52pm
Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma
It's true that this is not "bad" for women. It's GREAT for women! And it does indicate a failure on men's part to "step up to the plate" and do their share of leading as well.
Not just in the literal "government" capacity, but the way that so many men are quick to abdicate their masculine role.
Yes, guys, Masculinity is GOOD!
November 20, 2009 at 7:28am
Carlos Xuma
Check out this powerful speech by Al Pacino… Ask yourself, what inches are you going to fight for?
Carlos Xuma
Hey, I found this on a yahoo article page. Very interesting find about the role of effort in gender selection. It’s written for women, but it’s interesting for guys to know how this works. Ch...
Carlos Xuma
(CARLOS XUMA: Take a read through this article… tell me what you think. ...
Numan Nazir ☺
Numan Nazir ☺
@David
I thank u for clarification; however, irrelevant and irresponsible use words scream insecurity and attention seeking efforts..
October 25, 2009 at 3:30pm
Waldo Aucamp
Waldo Aucamp
Ya know sumtin'... If I have to hear one more time "...some nice girl out there..." I'm gonna start throwing fists! In the past I could have agreed with the whole article, but not anymore: If she's all of a sudden swinging it for the nice guy, then either his lucky (which he isn't, he's in fact the last choice) or she has given up her fight (and I ain't settling for a beautiful girl who thinks I'm nice...)
November 20, 2009 at 10:47am
Carlos Xuma
Post on forum from a student:Wow. Yesterday at this concert there was a beautiful girl that I kept locking eyes with and as the night went on she gravitated towards me and eventually was literally right up against me...
Carlos Xuma
This guy thinks so… Modern man a wimp says anthropologist
Bob Smith
Bob Smith
Yes a majority of men have been raised in a wuss society, that is why a true man is such a big thing to women, because there are not many of them
November 6, 2009 at 3:59pm
Carlos Xuma
How to meet women – on Halloween
Carlos Xuma
You meet a girl you really like… she’s attracted to you… You start to hit it off, and it’s certain you’ll be seeing her again. Awesome! Now what do you do? Here’s ...
Carlos Xuma
This video is a bit corny and slightly heavy handed, but it’s a good message on motivation. Do you have this kind of voice inside your head…? This kind of coach kicking you in the ass when you start crying “But it’s so hard!” Get motivated.
Carlos Xuma
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