Divorce Busting

Thanks for the comments. Don't give up hope. So many marriages can heal. I work with couples every day who have very challenging problems but they manage to turn things around with help. Get help.

Suzanne, thanks for sharing. Research says that marital satisfaction goes down with the birth of each child. So, your story makes complete sense. Congrats on hanging in there and for celebrating your 25th.

This is so unfortunate. Erecitle dysfunction is a very common problem that can be resolved with help. I am sorry that you have been suffering with this, but you and your husband should go to a sex therapist. There are specific techniques you both can learn to break out the cycle of guilt, blame, and so on. YOu deserve a better sexual and emotional relationships. Take action now!!

Brandi, if you are separated, clearly, you need to focus on other things right now. Please read Divorce Remedy to get some ideas about what you can do to both give your husband space and at the same time, help him to notice your willingness to change. Even if you don't get the book, read the first chapter (it's free) on www.divorcebusting.com Hang in there.

Thanks for the comments. Remember, everyone, it's not about who is right and who is wrong. It's about being happy and feeling love. So, show love and you will be happier and most likely, get love in return.

Debbie, if you need to do it desperately, DO IT!!! Don't wait a minute longer. Most of the couples I see have marriages that have been put on the back burner. If you want to avoid becoming a Divorce Busting client, make a date now!!

Kirsten, Don't worry about who makes the date. You can tell him that you would love it if he planned something special to do, but if he doesn't, YOU DO IT!! Some things in life are less important than others. The most important thing is that you are together. I know you want to feel loved, I get it. But schedule time together and enjoy each other's company and maybe he will eventually come around. Do it in the mean time.