Heartlight Girls - Debra Gano

Cool! I sure hope it's better than the first one:)

i agree with you she is really not a very good role madle! thats why i dont listen to her music...in party in the usa video she looks really bad showing half her boob!!!! wow miley all 7 year ols want to dress like stripers huh!

It seems Barbie is full of plastic, hot air - and now bull$#!& too.

Thank you for this blog post, Debra! I shared it, too. I really appreciate and respect your passion for evolving the way we support our girls' self-esteem. Keep up the awesome work! (And if that RL model wasn't photoshopped, she's in serious health trouble!)

The model's head reminds me of a lollipop. What was Ralph Lauren thinking? It is so unrealistic and unattractive (the distorted and body)!

Debra, this is completely shocking!She doesn't even look human. Thank you for the light you shine into the lives of our daughters!

What young women need to understand is this image is certainly NOT attractive. Male or female, youth or adult, most would consider this quite revolting.

I think the only "cool" in town is real. I work with women and young women everyday trying to get them to be real and grounded in who they are, how they feel, what they think. Nice, Kind, Mean, Bully... all labels that don't serve women or humanity. No different than pretty or ugly.

How many woman are out there "trying to be nice" because they ... Read Moreshouldn't be mad or hurt or have a voice. I love the Heartlight work Debra is doing of building young girls up to have the strength to be in love with however they show up in life.

A bully is just another version of a young girl wanting power just like being nice or pretty or popular. It is a natural growth stage in order to become an adult and depending her home life and conditioning, she will turn out accordingly. In some cases, we want our young girls to stand up to anything that might stop their full expression and love. Labels just don't serve us. If a child is a bully there is a bigger issue to resolve other than teaching more hurt.

Right on Heather! Yes, I say "be kind" versus "be nice"...big difference. Being "nice" often makes us sacrifice who we are, we do it from a place of living from our false self and because we want the approval of another person; whereas being kind is being real, authentic, and truly coming from your heart, from a place of love...a.k.a. letting your Heartlight shine! Being real is the only place to be, the only place you will find true happiness and peace...it's what allows you to be kind.

Fabulous Debra!

Hard work gets great rewards. Celebrate!