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The Eloquent Woman Poet Robert Frost's campus speeches are transcribed and collected in a new book, and the review notes some amazing behind-the-scenes facts--among them, he once spoke with stones in his shoes, put there to keep his mind off his nervousness.

Source: www.latimes.com
Despite his reputation as a public performer, the poet Robert Frost came uneasily both to readings and lectures of any kind. He was so nervous about public speaking that he once put stones in his shoes to distract him from stage fright; early on, he even had someone else read his poems for him. ...
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The Eloquent Woman Introvert alert: This Enterprise rental car exec, an "irreverent introvert," explains in an interview how fellow introverts should approach public speaking--and why.

Source: www.psychologytoday.com
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Ever wonder how you'd fare if you were suddenly thrust into the public spotlight--but were uncomfortable with public speaking? That's a theme of The Ungarnished Truth: A Cooking Contest Memoirby Ellie Matthews, a winner of the Pillsbury Bake-Off...
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Editor's note: Marion Chapsal coaches and trains business executives in presentation and leadership skills, and blogs about those topics. We're connected on Twitter, and I asked her for permission to repost this very good article from her blog last week...
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The Eloquent Woman I'm working on The Eloquent Woman Step Up Your Speaking Workbook. If you had a guide to help you work on speaking skills on your own, what would you want to see in it? Leave a comment to contribute...

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Lakeba Wallace
Lakeba Wallace
Do's and Do not's while speaking
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Erika Carver
Erika Carver
I need a book to be compiled that contains higher freqeuncy vocabulary words. I teach adults and I am trying to sound very intelligent when I am addressing them.
Yesterday at 3:13am
Germaine
Germaine
This isn't in order but have sections on 1) The Importance of Pitch - sometimes the pitch rises at the end of a statement, making it sound like a question, 2) Eye Contact and Body Language, 3) The 3 Hours Before the Speech -- address the importance of energy, being calm, being only around around positivity and cutting off contact with negative ... Read Moreinfluences 4) Content -- if acronyms are used, please DEFINE them -- make sure content is relevant to the audience and up-to-date 5) Audience - know the audience, if you don't know, discuss how to properly question and gauge the audience in the beginning
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I saw Jennifer Cohen give a talk at Ignite! Baltimore recently--and while her topic, "Fired: Four Times," was immediately compelling, just from the title, I got even more enthusiastic when I spoke to her afterward and found out that (aside from teaching), this was her first real public speech...
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In week 10 of our Step Up Your Speaking program, I asked Stephanie to try on an outfit she might wear for a speech and to share her thoughts about appearance, which you can see in this video...
Mary Roe Eubanks

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Mary Roe Eubanks November 4 at 5:00am
I gave my mother's eulogy yesterday without tears and used some of the tips from The Eloquent Woman. I also received some tips that I would like to share because I was able to do it with out crying. Write out everything you want to say. Go to a privite quiet place and read it out l...oud at least three times so you can cry and get your emotions out. Each time you read it you can shorten the talk to the most important points. I then reduced it to an outline and penciled in topics. I did not read it because by then it was like telling a story. My only problem was my mouth got so dry about 3 times I had to pause. The other advice I got was if the emotions well up stop, take a breath, and pause for as long as you need to get your composure back. People will understand because of the situatiion. Thank you for the tips and the kind words.Read More

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Teresa Shipman
Teresa Shipman
I, too, gave my first Eulogy ever. My brother passed away at the age of 41 from acute pancreatitis. As you can imagine, this has been a very stressful time for the family. I am a Deacon in my church and decided my brother would appreciate this act. I kept notes handy but basically told "The Story" aslo. I urge every one to try a eulogy for family / friends at least once in your life time.
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Thanks for sharing that, Teresa--I'm glad it worked well for you. My condolences to you in this difficult time.
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This week, our coaching focuses on appearance: wardrobe, makeup, jewelry and -- most important -- the overall image or presence you want to convey. In this video, Stephanie shares her initial thoughts about appearance and asks you some questions: What's important...
Kathryn Minger

Kathryn Minger My deep, deep fear of public speaking almost kept me from graduating from college. I had to drop a class in public speech THREE times - whenever it became time for me to give my first speech, I went directly to the admin office begging for an "incomplete". The answer for me came with joining Toastmasters - now I could speak in front of a full house at Yankee Stadium!!

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The Eloquent Woman Here's where you can find me speaking in November--I hope to meet you at one of my speeches or panels!

Source: www.dontgetcaught.biz
To help make sure you don't get caught unprepared, speechless or without a message, look here for advice on communications strategies, speaker and media training, and content or message development. Share your opinions and ideas with me in the comments here, or on Facebook, Twitter, or LinkedIn!
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Last week, Stephanie Benoit went to the Essence Magazine Empowerment Conference in Chicago, and I suggested she take her Flip camcorderand interview attendees to get their tips on improving her public speaking...
Maria Portela

Maria Portela
Woman, first you need to know what you want to be then you need to do whatever it is necessary to rish your goal, I am an older woman and I feel I was very succesfully in my live, I have 2 daughters, 5 grandaughters a husband for 45 years and a big happy family, I am retired after 22 years of work from Cordis Corporati...on with a succesfully career, unfortunately I have an early retire due to my sickness but beleive me I want to be an inspiration to all the woman that want to be that: WomanRead More

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The Eloquent Woman Hello, new fans--please share your ideas and questions, and what you're working on in your public speaking! The Eloquent Woman community welcomes you!

November 2 at 6:52pm