Carolyn Hax
Advice with attitude and a grounded set of values. Runs daily in newspapers across the world and online. Illustrations by Nick Galifianakis.
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Affiliation:
The Washington Post, Washington Post Writers Group
Location:
Washington, DC, 20071-9200
 
Carolyn Hax
"Dear Carolyn: "I originally wrote to you about my sister's death and how to handle mourning in the future when my family expands with children. Since I wrote you, I have thought a lot about this situation. I decided that from now on, I will celebrate my sister's life on her birthday...
Marcy Walcer Kostis
Marcy Walcer Kostis
What we do for my mom, who passe. Is on her birthday we do a big dinner with all the food she loved to cook and have a celebration. It is a great way to celebrate who she was.
Mon at 6:37pm
Jenifer Brown Schrag
Jenifer Brown Schrag
Creepy maybe wasn't the right word. It just sounds like she is imposing her personal grief journey on those around her. Mourn, grieve, celebrate the life, remember all you want, but expecting others to mirror your feelings because you declare it the day to do so is asking too much. Kinda reminds me of how Bridezillas expect everyone stop their lives for them.
Tue at 3:29pm
Max

Max
Wow, saw this on Overheard in NY and immediately thought of the elevator/judging people post from a few weeks ago. At least they're not acting like this:

Larger woman in elevator eating Snickers bar: No matter what I do, I
can't lose no weight!
Less fat friend: Mm-hmm.
(elevator goes one floor up and
stops. Both go to ge...t off)Suit #1: Unbelievable, no wonder you have
weight issues.
Larger
woman: What? 'scuse me? What you know about me?
Suit: Other than you are fat,
can't take the stairs for one floor, and are stuffing your face with a king size
Snickers?
Less fat
friend: Shit, he do know you.
Read More

Source: www.overheardinnewyork.com
Terry Southwell

Terry Southwell Hey, what's a guy like me (64 year old, happily married forever, 2 grown, well adjusted, happy kids) doing in a site like this? Well, I read the newspaper (techno dinosaur alert!) and really enjoy your column. You are a breath of fresh air (and sanity) in a world sorely lacking in same.

November 8 at 6:01pm · Report
Julia M Cabrera-Woscek

Julia M Cabrera-Woscek I want to thank you for all your advice. I have read your columns since the beginning and have helped me greatly in making personal decisions (with fewer HUMUNGOUS mistakes). Love the profile picture (colors in the back and tame in the attire). The jacket rocks! Where did you get it from? The embroidery is awesome.

Michael Farris

Michael Farris Oh Carolyn, you make me wish I was in an unhealthy relationship just so you could help me out of it.

On a side note: I'm suspicious that the mug in your photo has no contents.

Daisy Cusick Kiley

Daisy Cusick Kiley You can get to Paradise (PA) from Intercourse (PA) but it will take you 1 1/2 hrs. Hopefully worth the trip...

Matt Fitzgibbons

Matt Fitzgibbons
Carolyn, I can't believe how much I have learned from you about life and about relationships over the last 10 or more years. I am deeply grateful, since much of what I know about healthy vs. unhealthy relationships is because of the wisdom you have imparted. Whenever I face a dilemma or struggle in a relationship, wh...ether a romantic relationship, a family relationship, or a work relationship, I look at it through the lens you have given to me through your insightful columns, and I am so much better for it. I owe you a deep debt of gratitude for the ways you have truly changed my life, big and small, over the years.Read More

November 6 at 3:40pm · Report
Jessica
Jessica
Amen. Carolyn Hax is my religion on Facebook...which may possible make me creepy (sorry, Carolyn) but what can I say, I'm a believer!
November 6 at 9:25pm
Carolyn Hax

Carolyn Hax Nice tidbit from today's chat:

PA city names:
Having grown up in southcentral PA, I was always amused that Intercourse, PA is not far from Blue Ball, PA.

Carolyn Hax: Many
of you will be happy to know that you can get from Blue Ball to
Intercourse in 16 minutes, without traffic. If you get there by way of
Bareville, it'll take you an 6 extra minutes.

Source: www.washingtonpost.com
Carolyn Hax takes your questions and comments about her columns and any other questions you might have about the strange train we call life.
Lyra
Lyra
I always liked the tiny tiny Gold Rush towns of Sucker's Flat & Gas Flat near Grass Valley, Calif.
November 6 at 6:26pm
Robert Hansen
Robert Hansen
I grew up not far from Boring, Oregon (and it was).
November 7 at 9:02am
Rita Bubniak

Rita Bubniak Carolyn, I clipped and saved most of your "Advice for the Under 30 Crowd" columns for my daughter when she was a baby. She is now 13. Do those colums exist in a digitally acessessible form so I can clean out my closet?

Anne Lindyberg

Anne Lindyberg Loved last week's chat. Intolerance of intolerance rocks. :-)

Karen Abbott Comiez

Karen Abbott Comiez Love reading the chats! Any chance you'll be posting the official Hax Lexicon with baconpants and whatnot?

October 18 at 6:50am · Report
Susan Lutton Veach
Susan Lutton Veach
I have been reading every word you write in the Post for years (love it, love it, love it) but somehow missed bacon pants and all the details...can someone else fill me in?
October 28 at 11:49am
Andrea
Andrea
Google Hax and Baconpants. "Bacon Pants is short hand for people I would like to see swimming in shark infested waters while wearing pants made entirely from bacon."
November 6 at 12:26pm
Alvaro Llanos

Alvaro Llanos Muchas gracias. Leo su columna siempre! Me encanta leerla :)

John

John I wish there were more people like you in the world.

Tracy Lewis

Tracy Lewis Thank you for what you do!