Being Remembered

by Gurbaksh Chahal on Thursday, June 25, 2009 at 11:10pm

We live in a very fickle world these days. If you ask the ordinary youth these days – what they would do for fame, it’s quite alarming. Just hang out in L.A. a bit and you might even get more shocked. Maybe, it’s the glamour – the image of being important that attracts them. But, then you see the handful examples of the true legends our society creates…you tend to second-guess if that’s life you really want to live.


Take for example, Michael Jackson, a true musical legend by any degree. A guy – whose music resonates through many generations and will be remembered for many more. If you asked anyone including the media what they thought of him last week – the words they would use would be “weird, bizarre, etc.” And they would bring up the scandals, the negatives (true or not)…but that’s what society thought defined him.


Now, unfortunately, he passes away – and the entire world finally gives this person the respect for his talent. I just find it awkward that it takes society a persons death to finalize recognize the positives one brings. I can also see how being in these surroundings the definition of “real” could easily fade.


It’s amazing that when you do live this life – whether you’re guilty or not of an allegation – you’ve already forever tainted your image. Doesn’t look all that glamorous of a life to me.


The loss of this legend – gives all of us a true awakening that we should appreciate life and never take it for granted. And, may also shed us light on how being a “superstar” maybe a pretty lonely place up top.

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  • Gunpreet Kaur, Ana Saksono and 14 others like this.
    • Ryan Peyman Tavakol true true!
      June 25, 2009 at 11:58pm
    • Ryan Peyman Tavakol being honest i actually didnt like MJ because of all the scandals and stuff but now since he died i REALLY feel sorry for him and respect his achievements... he was a living legend
      June 26, 2009 at 12:00am
    • Anu Mehra think the media...creates all the hype... n give that kinda undue importance to ppl wth money n fame...
      n yes the world is fickle minded... they are now having an identity crisis
      June 26, 2009 at 12:10am
    • Anu Mehra HEAL THE WORLD>>>>
      June 26, 2009 at 12:16am
    • Jeanette Vockerodt I trust that we can make a difference G, as young entrepreneurs.
      June 26, 2009 at 12:28am
    • Hiba Ayaz
      I believe he was a naive guy who was surrounded by bad people who were feeding off of him in every way they could. I mean whoever could, was suing him. And the media didn't help his situation either. They crippled his image, and now they're... mourning a loss.
      I guess any person who is successful in their career is someone the others try to bring down... Read More, if not take advantage of...
      I doubt years down the line people will remember MJ for anything besides thriller, the moonwalk, surgeries, and the lawsuits, which is a shame because he was bigger than that.
      May he rest in peace.
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      June 26, 2009 at 2:12am
    • Eva Brannäs ‎.. we have lost what is important in our lifes...
      June 26, 2009 at 2:45am
    • Nirja Patel I wholeheatedly agree with Hiba. People took advantage of his fame, and the media (like always) blew things out of proportion.
      June 26, 2009 at 6:13am
    • Mandee Banga We are all blinded by the images and ideas of 'stardom'.... No doubt, it's lonely at the top.
      June 26, 2009 at 10:46am
    • Nimmi Dhaliwal i think you just wrote what i've been feeling since last year.
      i'm sure since it's coming from you, all these people will hold it in more of a romanticized position than coming from me or any other non famous person.
      sometimes our society makes me sick.
      June 26, 2009 at 11:46am
    • Pooja Dalal The world as we know today has become quite demeaning, & continues to go on the downward spiral more. People are turning into self-absorbed, selfish & egocentric individuals. There is no place for values. I truly wish things would change for the better & may better sense prevails.

      MJ has become one with the universe, I hope he is relieved of all his burdens in death. Such are the ways of today's modern world.
      July 1, 2009 at 3:17am
    • Nivedita Chandrappa It isactually lonely up there when you acheive fame, because you are always aware of greed and manipulation. It's not teh modern world, world forever was like this, unless you asa person would makea diffrence, if Jackson wasn't so insecure about his money he ould have enjoyed a normal family life like others.
      July 17, 2009 at 6:21am
    • Abir Zara Khan Media is just too sadistic and fickle.
      September 29, 2009 at 10:12am
    • Ana Saksono i agree with u Abira Zara KHan,i'm from indonesia
      October 1, 2009 at 9:59pm