Flirtivation: Are YOU giving enough LOVE?!
Are YOU giving enough LOVE?!
So honestly, are you giving enough love and care to the people around you?
Are you brave enough to give as much as you receive in tems of care, love, consideration, means or anything else that makes relationships blossom and thrive?
Or are You expecting too much from others before you give?
Or are you really just there for the ride?
The only way you can have real love is to give as much as you receive and then some!
Of course that doesn´t mean you will let yourself be taken advantage of,you need to also care for and love yourself but to be a true LOVEr in the right meaning of the word.
When You are in any kind of relationship there need to be a balance between giving and taking.
If there is one who is giving way too much all the time without receiveing back in proper the love, care and thought they put into the relationship it will wilt away and die, it´s as true between lovers as it is between friends.
Sometimes this happens because some people aren´t even aware that they are not making the other person happy by showing them how much they really care by actions, gifts, words... small things that makes such a BIG difference!
They might be all wrapped up in their own world , too busy to really take notice about what is about to happen... that´s why it´s soo important to make sure that those people that you care about and love REALLY feel loved by you!
Or you might just end up loosing them...sooner or later..
It is one of our basic needs as humans..we want to love and BE loved!
And it is important to care enough for someone to make sure we love them the way THEY want to be loved, so that they understand it and feel it!
There needs to be a balance between how much you give and how much you take.
People have different ways of thinking about what love is too and how they will know, feel, hear, see and understand that they are loved..
Sometimes it´s not what you do as much as what you say , sometimes it´s the opposite..you need to do more..often though it´s surprising how Little is needed for the other to really feel loved, when we start doing, seeing, saying,giving the right things .
It´s actually always so much easier to be happy yourself when you give more than withholding!
It´s important how the other part perceive what you do OR don´t do for that matter..
it isn´t an exact science , but if we care enough to ASK our friend or our partner or anyone that we love and care about these questions and then implement the answers we would be able to benefit from a GREAT love that comes from a REAL place of mutual care and understanding!
Also equally important is to dare to answer them truthfully!
Q1: what do you need in order to know that you are loved?
What do you need to see, feel, hear,sense to know that you are truly loved?
How often do you need that to still know you are loved?
Q2: How do you show someone you love them?
Q3: How do you know you love someone?
Q4: What is most important about love?
If you start by asking both yourself and others these questions and take cues and start implementing the answers ,you will find that love has a way of GROWING exponentially! It will not just make others happy but also yourself!
THE gain and happiness that comes from giving and making people happpy is the best thrill of all!
Cause love grows when You grow as a partner and as a friend!
Are you brave enough to give as much as you receive in tems of care, love, consideration, means or anything else that makes relationships blossom and thrive?
Or are You expecting too much from others before you give?
Or are you really just there for the ride?
The only way you can have real love is to give as much as you receive and then some!
Of course that doesn´t mean you will let yourself be taken advantage of,you need to also care for and love yourself but to be a true LOVEr in the right meaning of the word.
When You are in any kind of relationship there need to be a balance between giving and taking.
If there is one who is giving way too much all the time without receiveing back in proper the love, care and thought they put into the relationship it will wilt away and die, it´s as true between lovers as it is between friends.
Sometimes this happens because some people aren´t even aware that they are not making the other person happy by showing them how much they really care by actions, gifts, words... small things that makes such a BIG difference!
They might be all wrapped up in their own world , too busy to really take notice about what is about to happen... that´s why it´s soo important to make sure that those people that you care about and love REALLY feel loved by you!
Or you might just end up loosing them...sooner or later..
It is one of our basic needs as humans..we want to love and BE loved!
And it is important to care enough for someone to make sure we love them the way THEY want to be loved, so that they understand it and feel it!
There needs to be a balance between how much you give and how much you take.
People have different ways of thinking about what love is too and how they will know, feel, hear, see and understand that they are loved..
Sometimes it´s not what you do as much as what you say , sometimes it´s the opposite..you need to do more..often though it´s surprising how Little is needed for the other to really feel loved, when we start doing, seeing, saying,giving the right things .
It´s actually always so much easier to be happy yourself when you give more than withholding!
It´s important how the other part perceive what you do OR don´t do for that matter..
it isn´t an exact science , but if we care enough to ASK our friend or our partner or anyone that we love and care about these questions and then implement the answers we would be able to benefit from a GREAT love that comes from a REAL place of mutual care and understanding!
Also equally important is to dare to answer them truthfully!
Q1: what do you need in order to know that you are loved?
What do you need to see, feel, hear,sense to know that you are truly loved?
How often do you need that to still know you are loved?
Q2: How do you show someone you love them?
Q3: How do you know you love someone?
Q4: What is most important about love?
If you start by asking both yourself and others these questions and take cues and start implementing the answers ,you will find that love has a way of GROWING exponentially! It will not just make others happy but also yourself!
THE gain and happiness that comes from giving and making people happpy is the best thrill of all!
Cause love grows when You grow as a partner and as a friend!