There's a common saying in street fighting that 95% of all real fights wind up in a clinch and go to the ground. Could that really be true? Frankly, I don't know. But I will say this: 95% of the time, a woman will test you by the second date, or sooner, to see:1. If you'll take her bullshit.2. How hungry you are for her attention (remember: those who look hungry, never get fed)3. Just how much control she can exert over you and/or the relationship.In this issue, I'd like to talk about how you can pass those tests, and how to do some testing of your own. Believe me, this is important. If you've ever been dumped for being too nice , or have been told, time and again, let's just be friends , it's because you haven't learned to recognize when you're being tested or just haven't yet learned how to properly respond. You thought you would get points for being co-operative and helpful , and instead you just got the fuzzy end of the lollipop.