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DRBY Realationship with Parents - Coming Back from College [3]

“A Buddhist’s Way of Reducing Family Stress and Relationship Conflicts” Excerpt 3 Talk by Doug Powers at 3rd Annual DRBY Conference, May 2001 “…the first night you are back with them, everything is good…, and somewhere there comes a moment where your parents trigger the... ‘old you’, the kid, and that it is even triggered gets you upset… when you are already such an incredible adult.” I know you people who have gone away to...
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Published:2009-12-26 23:36:07 GMT
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DRBY Remember

I tried to remember our final moments together Had it been at least two years ago? Why did we let the time past? What was it that I said to you last? I envisioned a lifeless body lying in solitude Irreconcilably gray, green, and cold I wanted to reach out my hand and to...uch you Afraid that I would flinch Shed another teardrop Weep in disbelief My fingertips recoiled and turned to ice Your delicate skin strangely hardened as stone Did I recognize...
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Published:2009-12-22 21:20:01 GMT
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DRBY Relationship with Your Parents - Filial Piety [2]

“A Buddhist’s Way of Reducing Family Stress and Relationship Conflicts” Excerpt 2 Talk by Doug Powers at 3rd Annual DRBY Conference, May 2001 Looking At Yourself Deeply With the relationship with your parents, the first thing is that you are going to be mostly like your... parents. So, this is a truth that is just a truth-it is not good or bad....
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Published:2009-12-19 23:30:08 GMT
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DRBY Free

A poem about growing up under adversity. A child with unspoken dreams Simple wonder and beauty, it seemed She could never understand How they could always demand Mistreatment, so unloved Broken and battered She was worthless Innocence taken Beliefs forsaken Steady fait...h shaken Emerging from the prison gloom She watched the fragrant flowers bloom With boundless brightness she transcended Honest joy and new-found senses A meaningful, pristine picture Within reach, its pure features Qualities once faded and unseen Sewn into her selfless being Deep inside I understand this time is...
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Posted:2009-12-08 16:49:32 GMT
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DRBY A friend of DRBY, Gwhyneth Chen, who integrates her spiritual practice and her music is performing at Berkeley Buddhist Monastery this Sunday. In such an small and intimate venue as Berkeley Monastery, the performance should be pretty amazing (as it has been in my previous experience).
http://berkeleymonastery.org/gwhyneth.asp

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We request the honor of your presence on Sunday Nov. 22nd, 2009 at 3:30 PM, to enjoy the deeply spiritual music of Frederic Chopin, played by a performer who has integrated her Buddhist practice and her musical expression.
Eric
Eric
I was there... She literally "rock" the house. Baby Grand was shaking up and down from the powerful sound!
November 23 at 5:32pm
Meeyan
Meeyan
i could feel that from home too....haha.
November 26 at 12:20pm
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DRBY I posted the Freedom Simplified booklet online. Check it out. http://www.drby.net/blog/?p=684

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The freedom simplified booklet is now available as a pdf (~2 megs). It's a intro-level material gathered from retreat. Excerpt: Buddhism has a ver...
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DRBY Steve's thoughts on Twheet, fresh off the Saturday event. http://www.drby.net/blog/?p=668

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I went to the Twheet yesterday, which was an event that brought together several Bay Area young adult Buddhist groups in the area. About 100 people attende...
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DRBY Upcoming conference on meditation in SF, Turning Wheel Talks. The conference, which will be held this Saturday, 11/14/09, covers topics likely to interest DRBYers and features some very accomplished speakers (including DM Heng Sure) http://www.drby.net/blog/?p=589

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A gathering of Buddhist/Meditative young adult groups will take place on Saturday, November 14th, at the First Unitarian Universalist Church in San Franc...
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Here's their facebook group page: http://bit.ly/Jrfxo
November 8 at 9:25pm
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DRBY We notice some slowdown in the drby website for the main site and the blog. We'll try figure out and fix the problem asap...

October 29 at 12:01pm
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DRBY Chan & Tea today in Berkeley! :) http://bit.ly/44gGhq

October 29 at 11:59am
Eveline Lee
Eveline Lee
Don't mind, can we ask questions even if we are not there? I sometimes have doubts that I would like to ask a Sanghan.
October 31 at 2:08am
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Well, it's good to ask questions, but Chan & Tea is an informal gathering for practitioners meditate and have informal discussions among themselves. We usually save the questions for classes.
November 8 at 9:15pm
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DRBY Taking One's Life. One buddhist's take.
http://bit.ly/3ITn9q

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A few days ago I met a man in the monastery wondering what he could do for his brother who had just committed suicide. I explained that in Buddhism, peop...
Eveline Lee
Eveline Lee
I've always had the impression that American kids communicate more with their parents than Chinese ones... am I mistaken? For those of us with Chinese upbringing, I think we just bite the bullet and go on.
October 16 at 12:00am
Philip
Philip
I don't think so. It's probably on equal footing if not the other way. The Chinese parents in general sacrifice more for their kids. Unlike the older generations who had to labour more to make a living, the "younger" generation of parents tend to have better jobs, be more informed and share more of the same things as their kids. Despite teenage rebellions, the Chinese parents and the kids tend to be closer, treasure family more and talk more.
October 18 at 9:46pm
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DRBY Great article about the writer's journey to eating less meat, and what that meant. Meat taste good, and comes with cultural memories....

http://bit.ly/msheF

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Changing what we eat and letting tastes fade from memory create a kind of cultural loss, a forgetting.
Eveline Lee
Eveline Lee
To me, vegetarianism is still the most absolute ideal. I respect the concept of vegetarianism immdensely. I think it's a change of mindset - to me, fruits are the best fastfood from nature! Who needs MaDonalds...
October 12 at 2:21am
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Yup! The article gives some insight into how interwoven food is with culture, history, memory, and taste. So, it's hard to untangle all just for veggie dishes, especially when there's no vegetarian food culture. That's why developing yummy veggie substitute is still important.
October 15 at 11:25am
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DRBY Interesting. Wonder how widespread meditation actually is in the US prison population. Saw the documentary, my impression is that they were still a tiny minority. http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/10/09/prison.meditation/index.html

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In his darkest moment, Kenneth Brown lost it all. His wife and kids, the housebroken dog, the vacation home on Cape Cod all vanished when he was sent to prison for an arson in 1996.
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DRBY Yay, Chan & Tea in Berkeley is about to start. http://bit.ly/44gGhq

October 1 at 5:04pm
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DRBY Just heard Jennifer Berezan sing amazing impromptu version of "She carries me" @ Teance Fine Teas, sample: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tgDsmhqe51A#t=1m09s

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Concert
Philip Lai
Philip Lai
awesome!
September 30 at 12:07am