Dr. Lisa Love

WELCOME TO THIS MAJOR OPPORTUNITY OFFERED TO ONLY 20 PEOPLE!

Program Starts January 17th, 2010

In 3 MONTHS I KNOW You Will Have Greatly Enhanced Your Ability to ATTRACT & KEEP REAL LOVE.

"You Are About to Finally Experience All the Love In Your Life You Really Want to Feel...."

No more heartbreak, loneliness, uncertainty, or disappointment -- just love, real love from now on.

Chances are if you are you have been through life experiences that were
similar to mine. You put your heart out there hoping to love and be loved, yet despite all your best efforts, something went wrong. Instead of feeling loved, you were heart-broken once more. Or, maybe you thought you found the perfect relationship, took a chance, made a
commitment, got married even, but something didn't seem right. The love didn't stay there in the way you hoped it would. And, because you felt disappointed you thought about moving on, or giving up altogether on love. I know, I've been there, but I finally turned my life around. That's why I want to share something with you...

Your experience of love doesn't have to be like this.

After years of searching I finally got it. I understood that one of the major reasons I was having trouble experiencing lasting love is that I wasn't very clear what love really looked like. Even when I had an intellectual understanding that things could be different, I still was confusing love with neediness, infatuation, codependency, lust, addiction, and (sadly enough) even abuse. So, I was still behaving as if I lived in a world where love was scarce, instead of living in an abundance of love.

As I realized this, it then became clear to me that most of our media (music, television, movies, books) reinforced these misguided notions of love. Why? Because they simply didn't have a clue as to what love is all about. That's why they talked about people getting hurt and disappointed by love. That's why they promoted notions of love not lasting -- like the popular idea that we fall in and out of love. That's why so many people thought once they found the right one, they would go merrily into the sunset and have no difficulty loving each other, or getting the love to last, from that day forward, when that was rarely the case. There were so many misguided teachings about love in the media I even formed my own company, LoveMovies!, where I could start to educate people that love was something completely different than what these cultural messages were teaching us. Breaking through all of this I finally realized...

You can attract to you a lasting abundance of love.

Fortunately, as I started to see through all of this I was able to remove so many false notions of love. And, as I did so I began to rebuild and increasingly super-charge my ability to attract and keep real love in my life. Instead of sitting home alone wondering if anyone would want me, or landing myself in relationships (and even marriages) that were far from anything I had ever hoped for, I began to wake up every morning full of peace, happiness, and joy. Whether in a partnership, or not in a partnership, I experienced an abundance of love in my life. It even felt, well, magical! And, here's the most interesting part. The more I understood what real love was, the more loving relationships I attracted to me. Everything in my life changed as I discovered...

You can have plenty of loving, supportive relationships.

Yes, these could include one significant and romantic relationship, but as I grew in my understanding of love it went beyond that. In fact, that was one of the major secrets I discovered. I learned the importance of building a Circle of Support. I really got how one person can't complete us, and the more we put pressure on one individual to be our primary source of love, the more we drive that individual away from us. That's why I began to look for love in a variety of ways beyond just one soul mate including:

my spiritual practice,

an extended network of friends and family,

a commitment to a loving and healthy relationship with my body,

outlets that would help me express my creativity,

and much, much, more!

In short, I changed my focus from finding someone out there to love me, and I put the focus on thoroughly loving me!

Put the focus on loving yourself as your first act of love.

As I got clear about what real love looked like, and as I built upon the various secrets regarding love that I was increasingly discovering, I was able more than ever before to remove false love from my life. It was like a false love detox. All that conditioning from childhood, and decades of media exposure regarding false ideas of love, were eroded and increasingly removed. I got it! I finally, finally, got it! I got what real love looked like. And, I no longer tolerated or accepted in myself or others the following:

Remove these from your life and experience of love for good!

Neediness "Love" Addiction Codependency Abuse

That's right! As long as the above are in your life you are actually repelling love from you. You are accepting everything that isn't really love, and keeping real love from reaching you. It doesn't have to be like this, and I'm going to help you.

But, first let me ask you these questions...

Are you constantly attracting relationships to you that end up in
disappointment and heartbreak?

Do your relationships take you down dead end streets?

Has your current relationship become lack-luster leaving you wondering
where the love went?

Are you coping with a broken heart? Is it constantly breaking over and over again?

Are you running from commitment and love, even if you are currently married and in relationship right now?

Are you tired of love giving you the blues because you truly don't know how to love yourself and others, or let them really love you?


If you are answering yes to even one of the above, then also consider this...

How much are you losing out on in the way of:

Love Happiness Money Productivity

Sanity Health Joy Satisfaction With Life

because you do not have real love in your life?

And, how much of the above would you have if you finally let real love come to you in an abundance?

I know in my life I wasted way too many years, cried way too many tears, lost out on way too many joyful opportunities, sacrificed way too much money in trying to heal or fix lousy relationships, and suffered from way too much in the way of low self-esteem from exposing myself to false love. Looking back I see the cost of not attracting and keeping real love in my life have been enormous. Thank goodness, I got free. Now, I won't tolerate false love anymore. Whether in, or out of, an intimate partnership I experience an increasing abundance of love. And, I want you to experience this too. That's why I am offering my...

Attract and Keep REAL Love Coaching Program

Here are just a few things you will learn in this program.

You will get clear about the difference between "false" and "real" love

Because I will teach you about false versus real notions of love as they apply to the following levels: spiritual, personal, mental, emotional, and physical.

Once you understand these you will never attract any of the negative false forms of love to you again.

You will become a real "lover" of yourself

You will finally feel powerful enough to set boundaries on, and even remove, harmful people and behaviors from your life.

You will better discover and respect your talents so they can prosper.

You will take better care of your health, giving you more energy, and making you a magnet to others who want to be near your positivity.

You will manage your money better, since your mind will be free of the distractions that come from being around negative people. And, as you believe in yourself more, it will be easier for you to learn and apply the skills of money management that will help you live a better life.

You will become a real "lover" of others.

You will learn how to communicate with others in a more compassionate, loving, and effective way.

You will know what it takes to create real intimacy and attachment, because you will no longer be creating the addictive, codependent, and abusive kind.

You will understand more clearly the differences between men and women and what makes them want, or not want, to stay in a lasting relationship.

You will learn tools to revitalize any relationship, rekindle romance, and bring back the feeling of love and connection if it has started to fade.

You will also learn how to say goodbye to others in a loving way so the bond of love continues to last even if the relationship doesn't.

You will love your life as you never have before.

You will learn to get the juice out of every day by going through a series of exercises that deepen your spiritual practice, help you connect in a loving way to yourself and others, and show you how to source bliss in many ways.

And, that love for life won't be dependent upon anything, or anyone, that is connected to false understandings of love, including false definitions of what it means to be a success that lead you away from the path of love for yourself and others, and destroy your life even if you have material abundance.

Program Starts January 17th, 2010

Just imagine, how much better your life would look if all the above were true. And, imagine the costs to your life if you continue to let false love influence you. Now, consider, isn't it past time that you experienced an abundance of real love in your life? Then, know this after this
coaching program you will!

What You Will Receive In This Program

1. 12 Group Coaching Sessions (& continuous Email support). ($600 value)
2. ALL Items in my Prepare for Love Series. ($124.95 value)
3. Attract & Keep Real Love Audio Course. ($67.95 value)
4. Two 30 minute coaching sessions with Dr. Lisa Love ($150 value).
5. Team Support by Group Members to Reach Your Goals (Priceless).

Total Cost? Around $950! But, there's more!

Additional Bonus Items

I will also throw in the following items worth $115!


$25 Meditation: The Path to Peace Ebook

$20 Gift Certificate to apply to any of my products or services.

$20 Second Gift Certificate to any of my products or services.

$50 Gift Certificate to apply to Coaching Sessions with me.


Total Value of ALL ITEMS? Over $1000.00!


But, because I know people are experiencing tough times I am offering this program to the

first 20 people who sign up for only $497.95

But, hurry! Enrollment is starting now!

Register here....

http://doctorlisalove.com/attract_love_group_coaching.html

Need a payment plan?
Want to learn more? Call me at 858-356-8359.
Or, Email Me at lisa@doctorlisalove.com

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It's the year 2154 in the distant future, but alas, human beings are still struggling (as they always seem to be) to learn peaceful and cooperative means of getting along with others. Creating an alter-ego known as an Avatar, humans hope to infiltrate and then conquer the alien race known as the Na'vi, who live on the moon Pandora, that orbits the planet Polyphemus. The reason? Humans want to exploit the valuable mineral known as unobtanium, which is worth $20 million dollars per kilogram back on planet Earth.

Ignorant and unwilling of how to go about the process peacefully, the humans take the usual path of war and domination. Originally gung-ho to help the Earth corporation known as RDA, Jake is given an Avatar (an alternate self) that he can use to spy upon, and then undermine to their detriment, the Na'vi civilization. Then Jake discovers something humans have still not learned as of 2154; there are other ways to profit from the world than through finding means to exploit it.

What then do human beings need to do to finally learn the futility of war, especially since war is frequently based on a toxic nationalism where one group insists they are superior to another, making them feel they have the right, and even the obligation, to dominate another?

That's a question noted philosopher Deepak Chopra is also attempting to answer in his book Peace is the Way. The answer in part is conveyed in the following quote by Chopra. He states, "To end war, you have to think of ending not just one conflict, and not just thirty. What we have to end is the idea of war, which has turned into the habit of war, and then into the numbing constancy of war." He also talks about how we need to give up the appeal of war, which includes the following seeming benefits.


"Benefits" Of War According to Chopra.

* War provides an outlet for national vengence.

* It satisfies the demands of fear.

* It brings power to the victor.

* It provides security to the homeland.

* It opens an avenue for getting what you want by force.


Those are certainly some of the motivations that drive the humans invading Pandora. But, as Jake begins to discover we don't have to live according to a war mentality. We can live more as the Na'vi do, with a feeling of empathy, connection, and appreciation of the sacred of all life around us. And, we can discover the beauty, joy, and even ecstasy that can come out of that ability to connect, something the Na'vi do literally, using their tails to establish these connections. In this way the Na'vi learn to operate out of what Chopra calls Seva (making sure their actions harm no one and benefit everyone), Simran (remembering their true nature and purpose for being alive), and Satsang (feeling connected because they know they belong to a community of peace and wisdom).

But, these teachings fly in the face of certain core (and false) beliefs that motivate the humans on Pandora, and also on our planet today. These beliefs include says Chopra: Money brings happiness; technology brings well-being, and military strength brings security. Living according to these false myths, Chopra relates, also keeps humans living in these states: fear, vigilance, insecurity, belligerance, tough, hard, unyielding, aggressive, and mainly unhealthy masculine ways of being.

How can all of this be overcome? Can peace really be a way we can learn to follow? Chopra believes so, but that requires most of all a shift in consciousness. As the Na'vi convey to Jake, coming from a fear based military culture that leads to a toxic and nationalistic attitude, they are not sure Jake can shift his consciousness to understand a better approach. That approach requires immersion in an environment where the conditions are ripe for turning one from fear towards love.


Conditions That Turn Consciousness Toward Love According to Chopra

* Giving love to others and receiving it back.

* Sitting alone in your slience.

* Immersing yourself in natural beauty.

* Making art and appreciating art in all its forms.

* Telling the truth, whatever the consequences.

* Laughing, dancing, playing with a child.

* Having any outlet for joy.

* Communing with deep emotions.

* Acting out of kindness and compassion.

* Bonding, feeling at one with a group whose goals are positive.

* Offering yourself in service.


For Jake and the few humans close to him, their consciousness is turned toward love. Sadly, for all involved (the Na'vi and the humans) that love is not sustained and cultivated enough towards one another, and war wins out once more. But, at least there are some glimmers of what life could be like if all of us learned to choose peace as the way, and spent more of our energy devoted to building bonds with all of life around us. Maybe, we could each cultivate our own Avatar then, as a projection of our best spiritual selves. Better yet, maybe we can learn to inhabit that Avatar enough, that we become spiritual, loving, and peaceful human beings, making any other way of living, especially war, alien to our way of being once and for all.

LOVEMOVIES! RESOURCE MATCHES.

Avatar (Movie Trailer)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cRdxXPV9GNQ

Peace is the Way (Book)
http://www.amazon.com/Peace-Way-Bringing-War-Violence/dp/0307236072/agelessinitiativA/

Deepak Chopra's 9 Points for a Peace Economy (YouTube Video)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z1jKQUGBAt4

Peace Today Movie (YouTube Video)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7FVjfmBTgh8&feature=related


WRITTEN BY: Dr. Lisa Love
NOTE: This article is Copyrighted as of 2010 by LoveMovies! All Rights Reserved

READ MORE EMPOWERMENT MOVIE REVIEWS AT:

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As mentioned in a previous article, especially when you are in an abusive and violent relationship, research shows almost the only thing that works is to leave the abuser. Does that mean, however, you can never return? Yes, you can return. But, only after you have had the strength and courage to teach your abuser how to love. How is that done?

To be honest, I know of no better book on this subject than Lundy Bancroft's - Why Does He Do That? This is hands down the best book on the market for understanding abuse and knowing if an abuser is capable of changing, or is in the process of changing. Lundy even has a fifteen step checklist that any person who loves an abuser should use to determine if the abusive person is no longer tempted to resort to abuse. That checklist goes from the abuser admitting to the abuse, allowing for zero excuses for the abuse, entering an abuse program (usually takes two years to go through) with a qualified therapist who specializes in abuse, making active restitution for the abuse, giving up the goodies for abuse, and having zero tolerance for abuse in themselves or others. Other books that can help include - You Don't Have to Take It Anymore, by Stephen Stosny. This book is best utilized if an abuser is in an abuse program.

Research also shows that unless an abuser goes through this process, he or she, will abuse again. That is why it is so crucial to love yourself and another to insist on change - to insist that loving behaviors replace abusive ones. Want to learn more about some of the principles in Bundy's book? Go to the LoveMovies! review on The Changling movie. It deals with abuse in men. Though women can abuse as well, sadly men are overwhelmingly abusers mainly because male culture often teaches them that abuse is acceptable (something loving men work hard to change in the male culture).

Here is the link to the review.

http://www.lovemoviesonline.com/short_reviews/changeling.html

Copyright 2009 by Dr. Lisa Love. All Rights Reserved.

Attract & Keep Real Love Programs found at http://www.doctorlisalove.com