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The (hopefully) Funny Side Divorce and Beyond: you THOUGHT your days of uncomfortable set-ups and first dates were long gone. Surprise! Send me your stories because if we're going to get through this, we need to laugh.
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First Steps / Second Time Patience is indeed a virtue. Someone, grant some more, soon.

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I had no idea it would be so hard to get divorced. I’m not totally clueless; I knew it would be an emotional roller coaster. I knew it would be a bummer for my bank account. But I didn’t realize ...
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First Steps / Second Time The world of dating does not cease to amaze. Could we be close to a singles vaccine?

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A while back, I was driving to a friend’s house when I looked up to see a Walgreen’s on the corner with a sign reading, “shingles vaccine.” At first glance, I thought it said, “singles ...
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First Steps / Second Time Realizing you're exactly where you want to be is pretty amazing.

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I recently received notice from my condo association that I am not permitted to renew my lease next February because I have a dog who has been living here “illegally.” I obviously knew this was a possibility, but I also thought I might be able to slip by. ...
Brooke
Brooke
Really there is no rush! Also, damn those condo commandoes. Like you said, it's happening for a a reason. Good luck w/ the hunt in the months ahead.
August 9 at 1:44pm
Kizzy Sanchez
Kizzy Sanchez
one more wish for your daruma :) way to stay positive chickie.
August 9 at 3:20pm
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First Steps / Second Time A plea: maybe it's not for world peace, but it would my world a lot more peaceful.

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For those of you who have read Elizabeth Gilbert’s “Eat, Pray, Love,” you will understand what I’m about to do. For those of you that haven’t, you’ll probably think I’m a slightly off my rocker. ...
Amy
Amy
hope you're feeling GOOD after this plea, and that you signed it, put your feet up, sipped a BIG glass of wine and felt lighter than ever. : )
August 7 at 7:15pm
Kizzy Sanchez
Kizzy Sanchez
this was awesome Tara!!!!!
August 7 at 7:48pm
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Thanks, girls! Yes, wine was involved. And some french fries. ;-)
August 8 at 7:13am
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First Steps / Second Time Dating = revealing info about you. Not as easy as it sounds.

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Dating after divorce can be scary. Maybe “scary” is a little strong, but in order to get to know someone, you obviously have to reveal things about yourself. This can be very intimidating. Admit it: this is why you were happy being a married person who would never have to date again.
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First Steps / Second Time The mundane things we somehow become attached to ... I think the best thing is to laugh about it.

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I’ve already discussed how much fun it can be to divide your marital belongings after or during a divorce, but the subject came up again the other night and it reminded me of the silliness of it all.
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First Steps / Second Time Pet custody - luckily I didn't have to deal with this!

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I have an old man. Now I know this isn’t very politically correct so I’ll clarify. I own a cranky old man trapped in the body of a very adorable, very spoiled eight year-old Cocker Spaniel. ...
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First Steps / Second Time New trend: living with your ex to save money. Hmmm.

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One of the newest trends the recession has created, or at least the most fascinating to me, is the movement toward separated couples staying together simply because they can’t afford to divorce. ...
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First Steps / Second Time The health effects of divorce. Not so great.

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More encouraging news on divorce released today. A recent University of Chicago study has revealed that people who have been divorced have a 12% higher rate of poor health and chronic conditions such as heart disease, diabetes or cancer, compared to our married counterparts. ...
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First Steps / Second Time Pre-marital counseling is becoming more popular. Here's hoping that divorce will become less so.

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I mentioned in a recent blog that when I married my husband I must have known, on some level deep inside, that I was settling into my marriage. But for whatever reason, I didn’t let myself believe it. ...
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First Steps / Second Time What to wear on a first date - question mark.

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Since I haven’t been out on too many first dates recently, I am somewhat clueless about what to wear. Apparently every single woman should have that “fabulous pair of jeans,” but I’m pretty sure I don’t. ...
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First Steps / Second Time A new take on walking down the aisle. Couldn't resist sharing. :-)

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First Steps / Second Time To live together or not - can it really make you more likely to divorce?

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Since I’ve separated from my ex-husband, I’ve found that one of the most important skills divorced people can acquire is the ability to step out of their comfort zone. In fact, you need to ...
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First Steps / Second Time Stepping out of your comfort zone - not too fun but worth it!

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Since I’ve separated from my ex-husband, I’ve found that one of the most important skills divorced people can acquire is the ability to step out of their comfort zone. In fact, you need to ...
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First Steps / Second Time Take back your power! :-)

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Today is one of those days. It’s one of those days when I feel completely powerless. One short email from the divorce attorney du jourcan set me back just when I thought I was headed in the right direction. ...