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Case study: He as left the home after she discovered the infidelity. He initially declared he wanted a divorce, but later backed down. She is “holding the fort” together and he is basically an emotional mess. (A...
Here’s the situation. A person faces a #7 affair, ” I want to be close to someone.. but can’t stand intimacy.” The cheater in this case is often a controlled, controlling person who lives close to the vest, rarely self discloses important aspects of his/her life. The sp...
I came across again today a person struggling with whether to stay or go. The affair had been going on (and off… and on) for a long time. Friends and family gave the advice: leave! But, there is an investment. He’s a good father, good provider and an emotional attachment forged over the years. Bu...
I don’t intend to bash Tiger Woods. If, indeed it is true that he is “involved” with Rachel Uchitel, I can understand. There is a pattern I’ve observed over and over again in my past 25 years as a therapist. Highly...
Do you want to learn more about the marital status of someone? With just a few moments work you can search marriage records online and find out everything you need to know. This is what you need to know about the situation. If you need to check marriage license records, you’re not alone. ...
Even though you may love each other a lot, there will be times when you’re not happy with each other. If you wish to exercise proper marriage conflict resolution, you have to handle the matter in a mature and non-intrusive way. What follows are some helpful marriage conflict resolution strategies. ...
Without going into much detail, you will find a few things to help you tell that your marriage is in trouble. These are often the early indications and you should be aware of . So this article is good for you if you are searching for the truth about marriage...
Here are some more comments by readers who found Break Free From the Affair to help them on their healing journey: >>>>It made me feel less alone and less ashamed that I had somehow failed to meet my husband’s needs. ...
Healing from infidelity is a process. I ask my readers periodically what is important for them in the healing process...
What does it take for a person to recover from infidelity and begin rebuilding one’s life and perhaps marriage or relationship? ...
Facing infidelity sets you on a journey with many turning points. The road is difficult, the most intense human experience, I believe, but can lead to a new life, a new relationship with new perspectives on who one is and what one desires the most...
Here’s a video on a question you SHOULD ask yourself when you discover the infidelity and move through the healing process: “What are the patterns I observe?”
Yes, affairs do happen. You probably never thought in a million years that it would happen in your marriage, but you are there. Here’s a question you SHOULD ask yourself… to help you heal and recover: “What Am I Discovering About my Self, Others and Relationships?”
When discovering infidelity in a marriage there is one important and first question that must be asked. Not asking this question and attempting to answer it honestly often slows the healing and change process.
You can’t fit a square peg into a round hole. Trying to influence the direction of an affair with strategies and tactics that are appropriate and designed for another type of affair is worse than futile. You efforts may cause more harm than good.
