Mastering the Mysteries of Love

Mastering the Mysteries of Love EXPRESSION SKILL says "Start by remembering what's good." Conversations that don't go well tend to start with a complaint, which puts your partner on guard and defensive. When you remember the good, you put your concern or complaint in context of the bigger picture, of how my much care about your partner. That helps bo...th of you talk about the issue in honest, but caring ways, and keeps your concern in perspective.