
Mastering the Mysteries of Love SHARING PARTNER APPRECIATIONS -- One of the greatest and easiest things to do is to give a Partner Appreciation to your spouse. Simply saying, "One of the things I appreciate about you is....." Then your spouse responds, "One of the things you appreciate about me is..." Then switch roles. This helps build the love and... trust in your relationship. Give a Partner Apprecation Today!

Mastering the Mysteries of Love DISCUSSION SKILL is the pattern of taking turns -- one person Expresses and the other person Shows Understanding (listens with empathy). There's no butting in or talking over each other. Taking the time and focusing to speak and listen in this way will greatly improve your communication and intimacy. Find out more at www.MMLSkills.com.

Mastering the Mysteries of Love Locate a California MML Class near you by going to www.CaMarriage.com, and then click on "Classes & Trainings".
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Mastering the Mysteries of Love EXPRESSION SKILL says "Start by remembering what's good." Conversations that don't go well tend to start with a complaint, which puts your partner on guard and defensive. When you remember the good, you put your concern or complaint in context of the bigger picture, of how my much care about your partner. That helps bo...th of you talk about the issue in honest, but caring ways, and keeps your concern in perspective.

Mezzo Where can I find MML classes offfered across the US? I want to recommend it so people. Thanks.

Mastering the Mysteries of Love EXPRESSION SKILL - begins with "Think before you speak." Indeed, how often have you (have I !) blurted out a comment to someone without really thinking it through, without really thinking of the consequences. "Thinking before you speak" helps you calm down and consider the larger picture -- this is especially important... when you're going to talk about a disagreement or problem.

Mastering the Mysteries of Love EMPATHY - Dr. Berhard G. Guerney, Jr., founder of Relationship Enhancement (RE), the source for MML, said, "By empathy we mean putting yourself inside the skin of another person and being able to share the world that he sees and feels." Listening with Empathy is a gift of love to the other, and transforms the way we co...mmunicate. Try listening this way and post your story here!

Mastering the Mysteries of Love What is "listening with empathy?" It means to listen to the other person by putting yourself in their place -- imagining that your ARE that person and having their experience -- feeling their emotions, seeing through their eyes. Listening in this way gets you to a place of deep understanding and empathy for the other p...erson. This skill is at the heart of MML.

Mastering the Mysteries of Love My wife and I use the MML skills all the time. We started practicing them 4 years ago and have both found the value of empathic listening -- just that one skill can make a HUGE difference in a relationship: the ability (and sincere effort) to listen inten

Markus Buergi
dear fellow earthling,
greetings!
MAY YOU LIFE WELL,
and, rest assured, that just got a whole lot easier through trainings like MML. Now then whatever your situation, this is a topic you just CANNOT, NEVER, EVER!, neglect. GOT IT?
What makes you so sure that your marriage is going to last?
- Faith? YOUR faith???
- Luck? Then... GOOD luck!
- Wishful thinking? NOW we're talking! We're up to something there!
MML opened my eyes to my reality as nobody and nothing else did in the last 20 years! You know the thing with the bones and the flesh ... So then, if the bones are too hard on you, and now the flesh is oh so hard, too, sure we're up to something here ...
JUST DO IT, you cannot die attending, but you might otherwise.
Remember the word that truth is more often than not hard to receive? Now then, take heart, and know that HIS love tries to sneak up to you in many different ways at times.
Yours sincerely,
Markus

Mastering the Mysteries of Love The Mastering the Mysteries of Love (MML) fan page is now up and running! Among other things, I'll use it to post notices of MML classes taking place in California. (Also be sure to check out www.CaMarriage.com for "classes & trainings" and www.MMLskills.com). Please share this fan page with your friends and networks -...- THANKS!!! MML - Communication Skills to enhance your marriage and ALL your relationships!
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Classes and Programs for Everybody: youth, singles, seriously dating, engaged, newly married, expectant/new parents, marrieds, step families, empty nesters, and distressed marriages! Click on Go to find classes near you!
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