Quantum Dating Club

FLORIAN! Where on this planet are you my friend?

working in switzerland! another part of the dream,.. for some time.... will be in peru in jan... guess why ;) ! hey care to join? :)
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flo

Peru? No idea why. What mischief are you up to, Flo?

I'm gonna chime in on this one: Debbie has a point, this isn't an STD. There is no ethical obligation; yet.

The energy you have behind a thought helps to determine it's impact on others. If your view on anti-anxiety meds is gentle, then your presentation will be the same. Conversely, if presented as a "big deal", the receiver of this news may ... Read Morefeel your drama.
Tell your new lover you're on meds with the same attitude you tell him you want your eggs scrambled. Of course, this means you have to actually be at peace with your lifestyle...

I don't necessarily think it's an ethical issue per se. It's more a best-procedures type issue. 1) I am an honest and up-front person and I expect the same of anyone with whom I am exclusive. I'd want him to confide in me so I think it is only fair to disclose. 2) If he has a hang-up about it, I'd want to know before the attachment goes too deep... Read More.

But you're absolutely right - it doesn't need to be high drama. If it's just a casual mention then a disproportional reaction is your red flag that this might not be the right partner.

People tend to see themselves as their illness, just like people state who they are by the job title. Quite frankly, if the illness is under control, for now, it doesn't matter much to the new relationship whether or not she's taking any kind of medication. Unless, the focus of her life is this mental anxiety, the new partner will eventually pick ... Read Morethat up being with her and will probably start asking questions. Full discloser at that point. I am in complete agreement with Sarina that you treat this like scrambled eggs. I couldn't write it quite right last night without sounding like an uncaring bitch.

This lady wrote in the first Tao of Intimacy book! She knows her stuuufffff!

This lady wrote in the upcoming second Tao of Intimacy book! She knows her stuuufffff!

Thank you......I am enjoying being a dating consultant for QDC, too.

Trust me ...dating younger men is not all it's cracked up to be!

It doesn't depend on the gender, it depends on the situation. When one party is young, inexperienced and more emotionally vulnerable, an older party has the upper hand. People who like to control their partners often choose one much younger because they can manipulate them. I think this is less likely or problematic the older both parties are. An ... Read More18/35 match is creepier than a 37/50 match. I don't have a problem with an age spread as long as it doesn't exploit the younger person's vulnerabilities. I've dated two people who were 12 years younger. The first one was a huge mistake because he was an immature little #$@& who suckered me in and then dumped me, and the second was enough of an alpha that I am positive I NEVER had the upper hand. Summarized: It's fine for either sex as long as no one is taking unfair advantage.
And yeesh, Jimmy! Eewww! Thanks for the visual! Pffhleh!

How about better than candy - sweet, but not fattening.

I think I am like a BIG HUNK, I can form into many shapes, I am a little nuts, kind of annoying because I get stuck in all of those little spaces in your teeth, I am soft but tough, but will last forever if you dont try to chew me up...LOL...

teehee

and when you know the difference between need and want then you can start to choose...realizing your own power and responsibility to choose helps keep you and your relationship healthy.

What makes you so certain that simply chatting you up meant he wanted to get into your knickers! Everyone is potentially a business contact - EVERYONE! Vanity, thy name is Sarina.