StandUpGirl

oh honi! you r very welcome! i love you! n u have helped me jus as much if not more then i have helped you. u r very strong. keep a smile on ur face love :D

Actually, there are many StandUpGirls who respond to letters to the site. Some have had children before marriage, one has had two abortions, one adopted a child, one has a large family, one has never had sex, one had a child born with an abnormality, one has had a very difficult past involving drugs, many partners, and a second chance.

Becky, ... Read Morethe first to tell her story, was attending a particularly straight laced Catholic college when she became pregnant. She would have visited a local free clinic that gave pregnancy tests... but several of her friends volunteered there! Most embarrassing. So she bought a test, and then had to tell her boyfriend, decide what to do, then tell her parents, then his parents. It was a very difficult experience, but she has been willing to share what she learned from it over the past 9 years as the website has grown. You can write her at dearbecky@standupgirl.com if you would like to get more insight on her story in particular, or on those of one of the other girls who answer letters.

Thank you. I wen to standupgirl.com but I didn't really understand the website, I will look again in a few. Thank you for taking the time to read my story, and my wall post and reply to them. I appreciate it.

I didn't even want to know the sex because I wouldl get more attached then I already was. I didn't think I could have a baby with a boy who was supposed to be my brother. So, I sat down and I talked to my mom about it a couple weeks later. We decided adoption would be a good choise for my baby to have the best life possible. My baby's father wanted... Read More no part in anything that involved this child. So, I was on my own. It was difficlut considering we live in the same house. I told my mom I would do adoption but only if it was an open adoption. So, I had this girl and her husband that were very close to our family and they agreed to take this baby for us. So, I went in again to the Doctors, I found out the sex. It was a little boy. On December 23rd, 2006, two months after I turned 13 I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. He was perfect. I love him with my whole heart, I always have and always will. I am now 16 years old and he is now 2 years old, almost 3.They may have him and he may call them "Mom" and "Dad" But he will always be MY little boy. I still see him often and I get pictures just about every day.Adoption can be a good thing and Abortion should never be the answer. Age doesn't define how good of a parent you are either.

That is one of the most difficult stories we have ever seen on StandUpGirl. Your attitude of service to the child is very impressive for one so young.

Thank you. I appreciate you taking the time to read it. I actually helped a girl who sent me a friends request, it made me feel good. I hope my story will help other people not want to abort. Open adoption is a very good thing.

I got pregnant very young too but I gave my son up for adoption. I got pregnatn when I was 12 and I had my baby two months after I turned 13. I gave him up to a very nice couple, it's an open adoption and he only lives 40 mins away. I see him often and get pictures just about every day.

Why ?

pretty much the only thing u can do is support her. I know what u're going through, my cousin is pregnant and i don't know what else to do except support her and give her love. That's my best advice to give to u, hope that helps

i got pregnant in the end of my freshmen year and im now in my senior year. my son kaiden is turning 2 november 27 and we are both doing great. we have an awsome life some people do a good job others struggle....it all depends on the amount of support ,,,

that's a every touching story more woman should have more hope. You should always focus on the positive side

thats an amazing story, im 14 and im tryen to get threw life. bummer.

13 and preggo? im not judging you. im just asking you to find it in your heart to either keep the baby or give it to a family who will be able to care for it as it needs to be cared for. please do not have an abortion

I was 13 and pregnant too.

ya, but it's just so confusing! all of my guy friends have started to say it! i don't know what to do, i've tried everything to ignoring their comments to telling them to keep their opinions to themselves.. and now it's just starting to hurt me mentally that i know i have a few guy friends that i can't trust to tell what happened that weekend, night, etc.

I don't mean for this to sound mean or rude in any way, bit I wouldn't trust how you feel. I have felt that way about several guys and my guy friends said the same thing as yours. But if you really trust your heart, go for it. Ask him to the movies or somethin.