yes she is...

aww!

how do you get those hairstyles?

This is custom content, you can download it from peggyzone, rose sims, modthesims and many other sites.

How Did u get him to give her the gift?

Well, there's an option in game...just don't know the right expansion...here I have installed: free time, seasons and pets I think.

No, she is not old...it's costum hair...