I always dreamed of living in #NYC. It's the best city in the world!!! Here in #Brooklyn, I became a woman, a wife, a mother, an Ivy League graduate, a business owner, an author and much more. Brooklyn is in my blood and my SOUL. Thanks for this photo!
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Do you dread the first date? Check out the first date hacks in my latest article for Psychology Today.

The 4 steps you need to make a good impression and a real connection.
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Betty Lui
· August 15, 2017
What a wonderfully refreshing and modern guide to dating. It was such a fun read and Chamin wrote in a way that made you feel like you were talking to one of your girlfriends (not the friend who tells... you go back to your dirtbag ex-boyfriend so you don't die alone, but the smart funny girlfriend with good advice and her life together). I felt like I was getting free therapy while reading it and the 90s references cracked me up. I could definitely see how some of my behaviors were affecting my current dating situation (hello, being too comfortable being single and making myself too busy/popular to ever let anyone in). All of her examples and online dating situations were spot on. I also love yoga and it's really interesting how "mindfulness" techniques can be incorporated into dating with things like calming down date nerves, not being too hard on yourself, and appreciating a first date for what it is. Looking forward to putting in use what I've learned and highly recommend this book to anyone who is going through the dating wringer/scene now! See More
Cookie Elizabeth
· April 17, 2017
This book really gets to the heart of what is holding us back from having successful relationships! I made a huge breakthrough from reading this book and it has changed my life dramatically! Chamin Aj...jan's conversational writing makes reading this book and doing self- help fun! See More
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Seeking Soulmate around the world! Ready to meet your match mindfully? Get your copy today! #SeekingSoulmate
Give the gift of LOVE this holiday season. Buy your friends and loved ones a copy of the Award Winning SEEKING SOULMATE Today💛📚
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For a long and healthy relationship, step one is to not be an actor. Step two is t...o listen to Chamin Ajjan 's advice. Also, don't have any sperm in your self-portrait. That one isn't as important, but it helps.

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I had a blast yesterday on The Live Brunch Podcast Panel hosted by Doc Mollette at Milk River Restaurant. I will post a link when it is available. You won’t want to miss the provacative and informative discussion I had with the host, Pervis Taylor, III and Damon Avinger! Special thanks to Osa AD for the invite back on the show!

And the radio tour for my award winning book Seeking Soulmate begins today! 18 show in 5 days!!! It IS the season of love❤️
Get your copy of #SeekingSoulmate! 📚

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Chamin Ajjan Psychotherapy, LCSW PLLC

Let’s talk about love over brunch and cocktails this Sunday. Seats are filling up! Get your tickets today at…
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So excited for the upcoming "Valentine's Day is Overrated...But Love Isn't #Brunch Podcast! I'm even more thrilled because we have an incredible panel of guests including:
@chaminajjanpsych: #Sex Therapist, NYC Big Book Winner and Author of Seeking #Soulmate .
@pervistaylor : Celebrity Life/Identity Coach, #Inspirational Speaker and #Author of “Single Man Married Man”
Damon Avinger: Community #Activist, Licensed Master Social Worker and host of "The Average Savage Radio Show" .
Don't forget to click on link on my profile to grab your tickets. Come hang out and be a part of a wonderful experience! #pmg2018

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Does Love have you stumped? Let's look at it from a different perspective. Check out my first article for Psychology Today!

A look at love through a scientific lens.

I am so excited to be speaking at the Brooklyn Public Library’s Main Branch at Grand Army Plaza for a workshop on Mindful Dating! Just in time for Valentine’s Day.❤️ Join me for a fun and helpful exploration of love, dating and keeping your sanity! And you can buy your copy of my award winning book Seeking Soulmate there. Seats are limited so sign up today.

Please join us for a special Valentine's Week program. Chamin Ajjan, author of Seeking Soulmate: Ditch the Dating Game and Find Real Connection will discuss love and the pursuit of love. Seeking Soulmate was the Winner of the New York City Big Book Award, Best Relationship book of 2017. Chamin Ajjan...

Check out this fun new article I contributed to for!

Psychologist Seth Meyers believes in the new relationship advice that for the first month of dating, you should only see each other once a week.

Exciting news! I have just joined the team at Psychology Today as an Expert Contributing Writer!!! Please follow my blog The Dynamics of Love and come along for my newest journey. 💕…/chamin-ajjan-ms-lcsw-act

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Please join my co-host Larry Siegel and me this evening for a spirited talk about "mindful dating" with our guest, Brooklyn-based sex therapist and author of "S...eeking Soulmate: Ditch the Dating Game and Find Real Connection," and my friend, Chamin Osborne Ajjan of Chamin Ajjan Psychotherapy, LCSW PLLC, at 9:00 pm on AM 1470 WWNN or 95.3FM in South Florida, or live right here on Facebook Sex Talk with Dr. Richard Siegel on WNN or AMP2TV Productions

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What couples are #relationshipgoals for you?

I am so honored to be profiled by this amazing writer for Atlanta Black Star.

Licensed Clinical Social Worker and sex therapist utilizes mindfulness techniques to guide black daters and survivors to trauma to better dating outcomes.

Give the gift of LOVE this holiday season. Buy your friends and loved ones a copy of the Award Winning SEEKING SOULMATE Today💛📚

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