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“I am SO looking forward to this article that I’m about to drop featuring the brilliant & lovely @ChaminAjjan. She is everything!
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Betty Lui
· August 15, 2017
What a wonderfully refreshing and modern guide to dating. It was such a fun read and Chamin wrote in a way that made you feel like you were talking to one of yo...ur girlfriends (not the friend who tells you go back to your dirtbag ex-boyfriend so you don't die alone, but the smart funny girlfriend with good advice and her life together). I felt like I was getting free therapy while reading it and the 90s references cracked me up. I could definitely see how some of my behaviors were affecting my current dating situation (hello, being too comfortable being single and making myself too busy/popular to ever let anyone in). All of her examples and online dating situations were spot on. I also love yoga and it's really interesting how "mindfulness" techniques can be incorporated into dating with things like calming down date nerves, not being too hard on yourself, and appreciating a first date for what it is. Looking forward to putting in use what I've learned and highly recommend this book to anyone who is going through the dating wringer/scene now! See More
Cookie Elizabeth
· April 17, 2017
This book really gets to the heart of what is holding us back from having successful relationships! I made a huge breakthrough from reading this book and it has changed my life dramatically! Chamin Ajjan's conversational writing makes reading this book and doing self- help fun!
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I am so honored to share that Seeking Soulmate won 2017 NYC Big Book Award in the category of Relationships!!!

Seeking Soulmate: Ditch the Dating Game and Find Real Connection By Chamin Ajjan

THIS is why I wrote Seeking Soulmate! Check out this touching review. I am truly humbled.💕💛

seeking Soulmate: Ditching the dating game and find real connection Us 20-somethings have relationships issues. We have relationship goals, but do not want to work toward them and we love talking about relationships indirectly but are never fully accepting of the trials and tribulations tha

In love and life authenticity counts. Are you showing up as your authentic self when you go on a date or as some version of yourself?

The only acceptable ghosting happens on Halloween, is fun and has ritual exchange of boos and delightful shrieks! If you are ghosting in any other way you are an ASSHOLE! Cut it out NOW!
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Dezmond Morris reviewed Seeking Soulmate on Goodreads5 star

5/5: This book is by far the greatest book I've ever read when it comes to seeking "the one". The author, Chamin, challenges the reader to examine themselves, a...s well as to think outside the box from the way they are used to dating. It's a very informative read and also very fun, for the author makes you feel like you know her by how she interacts and relates to you in each chapter. I thought I had it figured out in the dating game, but this book taught me how to ditch dating and how to get out of my own way! I'm so glad I bought this book. I highly recommend this book to anyone seeking true love!

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Helping people connect with romantic partners fills my heart with joy.💕 I am so grateful for the larger audience I can reach with my mindful dating guide Seeking Soulmate. Check out this wonderful review on Goodreads!

5/5: This is a book for anyone who is interested in improving their romantic life by becoming more aware of and confident within themselves rather than just "how to" tips for impressing potential partners. Despite being rich with insight it was a very easy read, broken into perfect bite sized chunks...

Oh hell no! I have a way better and more effective evidence based approach for you. Seeking Soulmate is a mindful dating guide that will take the stress out of dating and help you find a love with lasting power! It's is available everywhere books are sold. Link in bio. Get your copy today and meet YOUR Match mindfully!


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Happy Monday! I wanted to give a heartfelt shout out to all of my followers. I am grateful to have you as part of my community!

I'd love to hear from you! What is your favorite/ least favorite part of dating? Who knows, you might inspire my next YourTango or Eligible Magazine magazine article!!!!😘

Check out the rave reviews Seeking Soulmate is getting at Barnes & Noble! ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Are you ready to finally ready to meet your match?
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Transform dating and the often-fraught search for a fulfilling relationship into a fun, exciting adventure using mindfulness techniques and practices....

Listen up fellas! This one is for you.
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Dating advice for men from desirable women. It is worth it to take it all in. That's what SHE said!