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7 Steps to Protecting Our Children from Sexual Abuse
Step 1: Learn the Facts
Step 2: Minimize Opportunity
Step 3: Talk About It...
Step 4: Stay Alert
Step 5: Make a Plan
Step 6: Act on Suspicions
Step 7: Get Involved
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The story from one of our followers "Isabelle Chausse":
If you look through my Facebook you will see that I don't share very much about my per...sonal life other then my weekly meal plans, fitness related subjects and of course my lovely dogs. This post is different and I truly hope that you take the time to read this.
The intention of this post is to spread awareness to families about sexual abuse. In October of 2011 my grandfather was charged with 3x of sexual assault and 3x of sexual interference. The picture attached to this post reflects a conviction of assault due to a plea deal. Ive been treated horribly by people I once called family, most likely because of their denial. But here's my question, why do we spend so much time teaching our children to tell an adult when something like this happens? Its time we start educating families and not only victims. 1 girl in 4 goes through some form of sexual assault in Canada. We need to help the victim..even if that means youre not standing with the crowd.
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One of our follower "Cynthia Mitul" says-
Give time as much as you Can to your 12 to 14 years children and younger siblings... Talk about the Physical and Mante...l change has coming to their life in this period of time... Make them Understood the Importance of their presence to the family.. (tell them the correct one, not much or not less)....Properly tell them What is their jobs to the family... Please Try to be Honest as much as You can Don't lie to them... This time is very Important period of their lives As like It is the best time to maintain your relation beautifully and friendly with them... Because Your children's future is depend on your beautiful and essay going relation with them..
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1 Sichuan University students to take part in celebration on Saturday night. She felt happy and drank a lot of liquor, ...then a young man sit in front of her. she was constantly flirting with the boy , until she finally agreed to go with this handsome guy went to a hotel nearby, the guy opened a package. They went to the room,and the girl drank more wine, she slowly began to feel dizzy, drowsy, and then fell she asleep.
When the girl woke up, she found her body in a bathtub
full of ice.There's a note next to the tub, above red letters with the words "120, or you will die! "Her phone next to the note. She dialled emergency and explain her current situation. Doctors recommended that she check her back, and she found two nine-inch long cut wound in the lower back!!! Doctor wanted her to lie down back to the bathtub full of ice, told her not to move, immediately have the first aid team to find her. It turns out that her kidneys were stolen! The two ports, is to remove her kidneys.! On the black market, 1 kidney is $300,000! Forensics investigation determined that victims who drank liquor, take drugs that are powerful narcotics, plus ice also played to the effect, so victims won't feel pain. The girl died in hospital after waiting for a kidney donation to nothing.
Police advise everyone: this is 1 new crime is occurring, to young women and men, tourists, targeting students. Criminal organizations is large, and highly trained personnel. Such criminal acts are taking place in many major cities and bars all over the world(especially recently it is happening in south-east Asia)!! Please send to any person you care about, to the people you know/love !!
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Ways To Stop Sexual Abuse:
There are ways to stop sexual abuse, as well as ways to prevent sexual abuse. If you watch certain news magazine shows, and certain day-time talk shows, you will have a warped view of the current picture of sexual abuse in this nation. Most children who are sexually abused are not attacked by strangers, or by strange men on the Internet, or the creepy guy at the park. Fathers, mothers, aunts, uncles, grandparents, community leaders, cousins, sibling...s, stepsiblings, and church officials are more likely to be the culprits when it comes to sexual abuse. But you are not helpless to stop them.
The first way to stop sexual abuse is to be vigilant. If your child began exhibiting classic signs of sexual abuse-odd or unaccounted for injuries, ripped clothing or underwear, depression, alcohol and drug abuse, hyper-sexuality, withdrawal-then you should investigate immediately. The second way to stop sexual abuse is to listen to your children and remove them from a dangerous situation. The third way to stop sexual abuse is to provide a safe environment for children who are in danger can go to. Children will not tell anybody what is happening to them unless they can find an adult they can trust completely. One who will believe them. One who will not blame the child for the situation.
Another way to stop sexual abuse is through education. This article is a good start, but it simply cannot give you all the information you need about signs and symptoms of sexual abuse. It also cannot provide an in depth look at the people who are typically predators. For example, most cases of sexual abuse or perpetuated by men, and most of those are men the child knows. However, men are not the only people who are capable of sexual abuse, or who are found guilty of sexual abuse. Women can sexually abuse boys and girls, and that is often a crime that is overlooked or ignored.
Another way to stop sexual abuse isn't just to educate yourself, but to educate your children as well. Teach your children what are appropriate and inappropriate ways of touching. Also, educate your children about trusted adults in the community who they can seek out for help, if their parents are not available.
The biggest and best way to stop sexual abuse is to talk about it. Predators thrive on silence. Predators will not survive without silence. Do not let the predators have the silence they need to manipulate, groom, and rape children.