"Attachment theory can be grossly misinterpreted by modern-day parents: The goal is to be generally attuned to your children, not to raise them so that they don't experience any sadness, anxiety, or discomfort."
In today's #DearTherapist ...
"Becoming less visible to a volatile mother served as protection, but an unintended consequence was that you also became less visible to yourself."
What to do when you're pregnant and your abusive mother is a renowned midwife in the latest #DearTherapist
A fascinating interview with the brilliant writer Susan Shapiro about vulnerability, courage, and what makes us human--in both writing and life. https://bit.ly/2Pi7D3A
Enjoyed talking with KPCC's Larry Mantle today about encouraging kids' passions and letting them see for themselves what's "practical" or "realistic."
"Sometimes people want the truth, then punish the person for telling it." Lies and trust in this week's #DearTherapist
"With kids, it’s always the adult’s responsibility to find a way into their lives, not the other way around."
Starting your week with a thorny #DearTherapist about the complicated relationships in blended families.
A new way to start your week... #DearTherapist is now on Mondays! Today's takeaway:
"You love someone by acting lovingly toward them, not demanding that they take you to brunch."
This week over The Atlantic, an awkward friendship dilemma:
"If she does have the courage to tell you the truth, I hope you’ll appreciate her honesty because it shows that she respects and values you enough to offer that."
Hey, I finally updated my website! You know that feeling when you've tackled something long overdue? Thanks to Sarah Mattern for the fantastic design.
"Siblings sometimes have vastly different ideas, opinions, and feelings about their parents." #DearTherapist
Thank you NPR for highlighting the importance of giving people the right kind of help.
I’ve never heard anyone say, “You know what solved our relationship problem? A threat!”
It's the holiday installment of #DearTherapist via The Atlantic... happy 4th!
"A paradox of being a parent is that in trying to help our children, sometimes we make things harder on them and on ourselves."
Today's #DearTherapist is here! https://bit.ly/2tGpBTF
