NOT HERE TO MAKE FRIENDS: Wednesday March 4

Psychological sewer of Australian television, the absolute suspect of TV. I'm not here to make friends with you guys. I could care less. I'm not here to make friends. I'm not here to make fans. Yeah. I'm right. you're not here to make friends. She's not here to make any friends. I'm not here to make friends. What what what what let's be friends? Kumbaya? No did I guys James here from News dot com. today You with you. This is not here to make friends. Carrie Sackville Carla Big Nascar in the studio with me Hey ladies wonderful tonight. Oh look. I just gotta say it's probably one of the most underwhelming. Married at first sight that we've had to sit through yeah, it was all about the old people, but even it wasn't even enough about them. No so most boring dinner party ever people weren't even that drunk, except for except for Michelle, who is just in an absolute state because her husband isn't sexually attracted to her. No, and she keeps starting arguments with no way to go. so her argument she wait like her voice is very weak easy and she's always just said no like seriously like I mean seriously, you know it looks seriously like that's it. Yeah. Yeah. yeah and look. it's very hard when someone is not sexually attracted to I've been battling that with you. Awakes Now it doesn't matter what I do, you're not sexually attracted to me and it's making me angry. You could have told me six weeks ago. James look I wouldn't know what it's like to have someone not sexually attracted to you. That's all I'm gonna say I can't relate you know I can't relate to you. Carrie Sackville. Yeah. that like she's really not taking it well so like we haven't because they're the old people. We haven't been following this story line. No can. I just read it right? I've seen this several times when we call them the old people, they're actually about my age. No. it's different to mindset. Yeah. wait wait say to young people where I think we can see the difference. look. she is not taking it well and she really hits Steve where it hurt tonight. Take a listen. I don't even come the image tonight. Seriously. you will lose your other form. Wait so I need to establish yes, he is he a palatable. does he just have the one he's an arm strong. He has the one. He's a Union bullet apparently and the thing is we will makes me think it's in the Middle I'm sorry. I'll just wait in the Middle. It's true. it was, he said. I just have one testing like oh Steve from six in the city. Yes Steve it's the thing is none of us. I think that's coming to the father the child. There's nothing wrong people everyone Bowl, but this is women don't care. We don't care. Wow like one book 367 might be. I don't care if you have one Bowl except for when they wanna use it as an insult like Michelle did and that's the thing like I think we knew that Steve had cancer. We didn't really know that he had only had one ball though, so she's added him as a as a power ball. Yeah, as you've called him and look can I just say like I really don't I I support Michelle. I know she's you know struggling with that you know with her non sexual attractiveness but to go for the Uni Bowl, I mean that's a young person sexual, it says non sexual attractiveness to hear so there's lots of men out there who find her extremely sexually attracted and may or may not have more than one ball. Yeah but yeah, I actually have. Have done similar things. I don't know about you David with one ball I had alleged men with one ball. No, but you get you get really angry and you sort of wanna throw inside. So then you say things to your friends like Oh, you know clearly he's dickless and and in this case it just it was kind of true. he was born. He was bowlers, but as I just wanna reiterate, Steve there is nothing wrong with one ball or finding someone unattractive. It's just that kind of a combination of yeah and the thing is with Michelle because. He's public, he sexually rejected her and put on a public platform on National TV and she's humiliated by this. Yeah, But I just think like the the humiliation that she's feeling she shouldn't feel more embarrassed than all those losers who were being filmed stockpiling toilet paper as the local calls and they are the ones who should feel humiliated shame on them, shame on them and can I like the thing is I would rather I would rather someone call me a unique Bola I would rather someone publicly reject me on National TV rather than maybe for. Buying toilet paper like which is why James was at the supermarket at one in the morning so I did I went there at 11 o 'clock at night and it was all gone and the thing is I would rather anything happen to me in the world rather than be filmed buying toilet paper. There's a couple of weird things here the rational between Corona virus and toilet paper. I'm failing to see the coloration. It's so obvious hits and you just throw toilet paper at it. How you prevent that cuz it's not like you're crazy To death right, that's one thing I mean, I'm not a scientist. I'm not a doctor. I'm pretty sure I've read enough about it. You don't put yourself and yeah, I think it hasn't. I think some statistics have come out saying that the things that it affects least is your digestive system. Yeah, right, but I can't. I think the theory is that all the shops are gonna close down right so we'll have nothing to eat. Yeah. so toilet paper Last, you know it doesn't perish so presumably we eat the toys that you have you guys seen my strange addiction and there's always some girl eating toilet paper and the. Sold out so is that not what I don't know. It's strange that they're saying you know, Oh, no. it's the people that have to go into so far solution for 14 days plus and they may not be able to go. Listen, You can just go and order anything online these days and someone will bring it to you. You know and you can infect up to him. but maybe that's maybe when it gets really like apocalyptic and everybody is guarding their last, you know words of of rice. Yeah, what you do is when someone tries to break into your House to steal your food. you tie them up with toilet paper. Sure you like play a fun hands buddy. Game and you make a bride's dress out of it. Yes, because all the shops will be closed because it will be dying of Corona virus so you need straight and then you know while you're at it, you can go your annoying neighbor's House. Yes. yeah, you can do that. Have you guys noticed though all the footage that's being taken of all those losers stock piling on toilet paper. It's all the dads like everyone's too embarrassed to go. do it so they send the day that it's such a dad to have to go do Okay. I have a confession to make I feel like this is a self-fulfilling prophecy. I was like all around surrounded by news all day. I've told people running out go and get rice and pasta, and I sent a message to my husband's like look. I can't go online shopping now cuz it's not work, but do you think you could maybe get some toilet paper off tomorrow. The thing is though he is a prolific user of toilet paper. I don't know what he does with it. I don't know if he lines the toilet with it. We just go through a lot of toilet paper. There's like two of us in the House. Yeah, like how much do you go through a lot? Okay. Can we just? On this a little bit still go for right. so. so when you say a lot are we talking about several squares or several roles plus session and then multiple flashes. there are multiple brushes and I think I went with a water-saving toilet when I if I didn't install it when I had it installed to be you know Eco-conscious order. But then it doesn't make a difference cuz I pressed the one and a half button at the same time so one and a half I don't know if that actually works so I don't he's just very. he likes to clean. he likes to be clean and his thing is to wipe until I don't know it bleeds and then it's done right and then so that's why we go. A lot of hashtag wipe. you're encouraging more people to go out and buy more. I want to live my life to you well, speaking of wiping to the blades If you guys noticed that the handy Ultra paper towels also like people are going straight, just a person to tie back to married at first like isn't that sort of like the kind of emotional equivalent of of these conversations at dinner at married at first sight, it's like they just keep addictively. Yeah wipe that a. Scott leads Keep on scrubbing what you survived and we start with Lizzy tonight. so this is her first dinner party and the thing is she knows like produces a brief door on what's been going down, but she's coming in and hashtag White blue eyes. I know what's been going on. I have no idea. I like me yeah. and then when they say no nothing is happening and she's like what so no one cheated. Well, she's got the Breeze said. No one 's got one ball really. It's so strange. it's it feels like she's definitely a plant but her her husband on the other hand we thought percent. You sign it said no one knows it doesn't even matter it does even need a name. He's just like he's a he's a human Amiba. He has no idea what is going on. Yeah exactly like I sort of visualize him as a Sea sponge really like and I actually can see him as like sponge Bob. He sort of square. He's big. He's a big yellow, especially when he's standing next to he's very busy. and he's just kinda you just feel like if you just pushed him a little squishy in your hand would just kinda spread back and there's nothing nothing going on. Oh, he's a very good actor because she's not yeah. It's so obvious that she's there as a plant and then you can tote produces of really hot drop as well. So there was the two -week high eight is the big secret that no one 's acknowledged on the shot. a bunch of people. there's been a Mass exodus that's producers of scrambled, they've said. We'll pay you anything anything anything any save us. You can tell that when you know like you're really the the breakouts celebrity of the whole series over the last six years. If the public really wanna see you she's come back, she feels like a celebrity. She's swans in everyone's swooning around her she's greeting a. Unlike she's the queen, one of the girls that I've gotta get the quote where is it? It's here so she swans in. she thinks everyone recognizes her and then one of the girls says. oh, that's a girl who was crying while eating pizza. Yeah, Yeah. And the thing is like I don't aspire to much in life, but if I'm known as the girl who was crying while eating pizza, we just got two things two things that James doesn't want for his future. What is being seen by a toilet paper and two being known as the girls. Cried No. I want that I would do that the girl who ate pizza if I'm known for anything you want that if I can put that in my Twitter bio, that's exactly. yeah, you know what I don't want. I don't wanna be that story on a car at a fair where I know it's me that's been filmed from the neck down on a story about junk food epidemic or look out for Australia's getting you know one of those sorts of stories cuz I I know that that's my color was someone else was wearing your dress while they were buying like 17 cans marshmallow fluff. Exactly that's exactly honestly, it's like my motor that water on the floor in public spaces. they're too. This is why we need toilet paper So when we're going to the public spaces, we can clean it up. But can I just say even if I'm in my office like it's someone's desk. If there's water there, I'm like like I always think any water is peace go into a workplace to you work at James. I my gag reflex is usually really good and I don't know why I just said that on there, but I'm just saying my good girl. It's usually really fine. It's also on your Tinder profile. That's absolutely. And Twitter and LinkedIn Instagram Yup, But my point is that I have this one little weakness, which is in public bathrooms if there is any like a dotted water and tiny odor like a scrap of paper and I like. And I was actually in a public bathroom with my daughter recently and she was on the other side. She could hear me. go. You know. Oh God okay. It's just it's that bad. It's that bad. Well. I gotta ask you were just minding sitting on the toilet. Do you like you? do you? let your body touch the seat in a public toilet. I'm sorry we're in the Middle of a Corona virus outbreak. James. What kind of a question is that look when you reminding if you sat on the scene and I just it looked to me. actually, I'm glad to hear that's right. Glad to hear Hey guys, Michelle's main issue If I can get back to the old people, sorry sorry, yes is is that she you know felt sexually rejected so she picks a fight with Steve causing the Uni Bowl A, but it's not over. She doesn't let up they get in the sponsorship. Suzuki Vitara. Yeah. it's fine. I think they're rolling in a Bentley or escalators and it's just a guitar but actually said things it is about me like he really sees it. He's like is that a band? Yeah, I love you cast milk. Michelle is doing that thing you know what you pissed off with the partner and he thinks it's ended, but you start doing the No. It's it's breathing out the nose with your mouth firmly closed. yes and you and you just waiting for them to go Babe. what's wrong? What's right? He doesn't give in so she just she starts spouting this insult and she doesn't really know where she's gonna land it, but she starts bringing science into the mix and I get a little bit confused here. It is have you ever heard of Charles Darwin Steve Yeah. The theory of evolution, so years ago, I had this theory of digging this big Hall in the Middle of Australia. I'm putting all those dumb people in a you'll be one of the first in there, you know for dumb people. Oh, so look so much is going on in that. No. When I listen to that, I thought my hair makes sense. It makes sense. It makes sense. my panel Charles when he's rolling in his dumb hole. Yeah grave knowing what look it turns. it turns out. it wasn't quite water tight. I mean I don't want a fact check Michelle but but we reached out to Professor Frank Nichols, who literally who doesn't. He literally wrote the book on Charles Darwin in Australia and we relayed Michelle's theory and we just said hey, just fact check like is this water tight cuz it sounds. It sounds pretty real to us quite unquote that did not happen. That's it. That's it. That's what you got. Wow that changes everything. but I think she's on to something you know and I wish I wish that it was effect because the idea of their being a giant hole in the Middle of Australia, where we just chuckle the dumb people that could be is why can't I mean there's plenty of space. I've got a shovel. If I don't have a shop. I got toilet paper, we can use the little rolls the rolls to dig it well. That's the thing I wanna I wanna check all the toilet paper holders into the hole. Oh, we need to get rid of them. We grab the rolls off them and then push them over the edge into the hole right who else should we put in the Hall people in the hole? I wanna go with. Can I please nominate all the people that come out with when you say you've lost something Where did you have it last? Yes, if I freaking knew it wouldn't be lost. Yeah. Yes, there's a time when you're walking through Westfield and there's idiots who walk out of shop fronts while on their phone and they don't look left or right so they just walk straight into the foot traffic. See that's Darwinian theory of evolution That is right there. Yeah. I have no. this is gonna sound horrible. I'm just gonna go for it. I have no empathy for people or sympathy for people who get hit by vehicles when they walk out into traffic cuz they're on their phone. Sometimes you want an evolution right. Well, no, I don't feel comfortable podcast. Would that be wrong? like oh they're now. I'm completely tough but that that's survival of the fittest that. you're right and so we can check them into the hole if they don't get hit by a Honda Civics, You know it's a win for us. We put the question out there. We've had a few people say cyclist. They wanna go in the Hall if you wanna join in the conversation by the way they had yeah my handle on Twitter and Facebook at Hello James William or you can comment below in the Facebook stream. we've had someone else say. Who knock on your front door? uninvited? Yes. Oh God. Well. that's just I mean that's why I live in a security block. it just does it. Yeah, That's it and my label at the front desk says this is not carries apartment, so I don't know if anyone is thinking about coming and they'll say it's not my apartment. I live I live in magnets that encourages me now. I'm gonna show you how uninvited I leave in what used to be an illegal brothel and so I get a lot of uninvited guys swing by my balcony and they sort of call out and then you go out and go. As this is this still and if they're hard, I go yeah come on up, but we need to specify brothel form. Oh, I know it works for you. Yeah man. She got it. Yeah no, but it's it was four women. So that's why they're confused. When I stick my head out the window. Yeah there you go. John. I guess no you don't no no no can. I just put in there anyone who who buys like slimming tea. Oh yes Slimming tea. If anyone who goes on a liver cleanse, I'm sorry. I hope you haven't gone a liver cleanse, but you know not cleanses anything to do with cleanse like any kind. Regular colonial colonic is good. Oh, no. no. no. it's the toilet paper like it's just selfish at the moment we do not have the room in society for your Columbus hydrated until you've had a liquid pumped in both in why it is a sensation. I will die not knowing as a gay man. I'm familiar with this person, Big Z and I do have to say you better not go down. you better be having your probiotics because that will screw up your microbiome so high. This is why I had the most hydrating date last night. It was incredible. I'm glowing. Yeah, I had I had a double colonic last night. how much room do we have left in the hole? I've got a few what looks like someone did say with that hole is getting pretty full pretty quickly. We've had someone say vegans who can't explain why they're vegan. Yeah. That's. Someone has said Lizzie's hairdresser oh 100 percent all the hairdresser all the show. The hair extension game is very bored this season. Yes, these are hair extension allows them to walk out of the House like that going girl you look good. Yeah, As Michael said. Did you guys catch it earlier in the episode? he was talking about his eyebrows and he said on fleek On fleek anyone who says on flick in but it's unfair, I know and also hello five years ago, I had no but he was you know. We're talking about the hair extensions and someone said Oh cuz I made a joke when Lizzie first came on the scene about a year ago that she came out and said she has a medical condition and she loses hair. Yeah, and I may have written a joke in tongue in cheek that she has prescription hair extensions and there are people that took that seriously. Yeah, you could climb back on Medicare. You can't yes, I have many times walked into tried to claim my fake tan. That's when you get to be, you know when you get to this age and you like the other like old people on the show, they'll know as well. We get prescription toys, It's cuz he starts bringing Brownies. Oh wow totally wouldn't. say young you are you think I'm serious as well so upsetting no no, but mine's not to do with age mine's just ethnicity. so my father is Italian. My mother is tie. I'm for most part dolphin the Asian in me, I don't have hair on me, but for some reason I got a downy mustache. It's it's it's a fluffy soft downy massage. It's just you you're just. Like the combination of the hot and the cold, the black and White sure, yeah smooth, you're welcome to Corona virus not only in a hot bed of it in northern Italy, and that's where my family is also the Asian parts. So yeah, you will. yeah. Yeah. Okay. We're risking everything to be here tonight. I know we don't even have toilet. We don't have that. but I know I'm gonna I hope that people appreciate the sacrifice that were get out get out see the other thing is you're coming to my House tomorrow. Carrie and I've got no toilet paper coming to the bottom. Yeah. At least, you know someone drops around, I need to earn some cash and they like it, but look Samantha was offering both you and I she did. She offered me climb a leg up in the trash. I'm not sure whether she was like talking like a specialty niche, you know clientele of hers who likes the the moment Pure lady. Yeah, by the way it's good to know. Do you think you could do it? How much we talking about exactly? I would do anything for some money story of. the girl who eats pizza anything she did. Ask us that it would be a dollar value. it depends how hot they are so I would need to have veto and now you can choose your clients and you could end up with someone like Michael at your door. the thing is I don't find Michael attractive, but if I could get $2000 for an hour-long bang, I would do it with him and I would need a full STD check and really only 2000. Yeah see I was gonna go with at least like two 2200 or I can like pasta GST, I didn't take into account. You know whenever I agree to anything I always go. Oh. yeah. that's a great amount and then it all gets taken away because attacks come to the baby. We'll figure it out tomorrow. Yes, that the brother well, that's yeah. We're gonna start the brothel back up. Yeah get some legitimate clientele. just back on Michelle and and Steve the thing is when they got out of the Suzuki Vitara this so old that they arrived at the party in Albertville and I love that it's true we do that's Carrie is gonna. I mean what is it? What about tomorrow? tomorrow? I'll be there on the daughter of two. I'll be waiting outside the bottom like banging, where is everybody is meant to be a party. We can't help it. It's because we know that our time on this Earth is limited. That's why it's so old and we don't wanna waste any of our remaining precious hours. I'm the opposite. I like to start the body now. No. The thing is like the bigger the event, the the more lace I am like it can be someone's wedding and I show up an hour late. Yeah and I'm texting them like it's no big deal. I'll just catch you at the reception. No. I just catch you. I think it's when I meet with my goal. All the same age as me, you know, we made it seven way home by 715. Yeah. It's really what punctual quick. we're in bed. It's perfect. Yeah. That sounds like six. Yeah. Well, it's not and I can tell you. it's definitely no. that's an awesome. Hey guys. We've got Doctor Annie. I'm on the line. I'm in case you in case you. this is the this is your first time listening to the podcast. Doctor Annie is our resident expert with a capital E and she's actually registered as a psychologist, so she can talk about these issues anyway as much as Stacey is registered as a lawyer, You know, yes, look she. I I imagine so Stacey keep saying she's just a law graduate, you know, so I imagine and he's done more than an online course and he can you clarify that you don't make me look like an idiot. I can't go. Yes, no. I've definitely done more than an online course. Do you wear a lab coat? No, I don't wear a creepy lab coat. Do you have a plate of macaroons in front of you right now? Oh my goodness. If I did, I would eat one you wouldn't just let me so she's a real expert. Well funny. you should mention that because someone's written in on social media and they've said they wanna throw the macaroons in the hole and the dumb people. So, Doctor Annie and you watched tonight's episode with Michelle and Steve and Steve not being sexually attracted to Michelle, is that a common thing particularly in old people relationships I can tell people thank you. Thank you Doctor Annie, but yes, it is common in relationships for one person to be more into the relationship than the other and I think for poor Michelle, that is a big insult to her ego that you know he's not into her. Although in saying that I feel like he gave her enough signal, Yes, that's okay, very good point that surely the owners is on both people in the relationship to pick up, you know when like surely the fact that he hadn't actually wanted to penetrate her would be an indication that something was basically a time and I would have gone with well. Carrie I would have gone with a less you know like yeah, but these are dark time just a touch on the elbow. The world is in so we have to. This and that's that's been a thing because over the last few weeks at the commitment ceremony, she's even said I've often no strings attached attached sex. We don't I've told him we don't even need to kiss. Yes, we can just bang, which is what's gonna happen at the brothel. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. you're right. you don't need to kids throughout the episode. I got a message from my husband, says topic old couple, the old man just told the old woman, Oh he's not attracted to her, but he's known it for six weeks. The question any how long have you lasted in a relationship without any physical attraction? I was like that's a great question that he. Back very quickly don't say 10 years cuz that's how long we've been married. So is it healthy to go on in a relationship with a reason to attraction? Can you rebuild that that attraction? can you fire up a spark again? Well, it's interesting. You say that because you have to think about arranged marriages, I have a lot of Indian clients and a lot of them have been in arranged marriages where they make they haven't even met each other that they've you know, talk to each other online or through you know a family being there and they've had to marry each other. And American, the sexual attraction has grown over time, but obviously it's a very different mindset. You know we just actually people go go off attraction first and then they kinda go backwards. So if you if you're with someone safe you feeling that spark, maybe Steve felt a bit of a spark for Michelle and then you lose it and you get the egg right you get the you just saw and I get that all the time. I'm dating. Okay. Go go out with someone wants to try something or maybe maybe and then it's like the third time and and they kind of I don't know. Put the fork in the nose or something. I'm just saying you know you like that. I think I was telling you for me like it was a guy who said Chicken weird jacket chicken chicken. You discovered that the guy you're dating has just stopped pulled. toilet paper. Yes. can you then get it back if if the egg settles in Oh, that's the hard one because yeah, what if you've had it in the beginning, but it depends on level. so you know, sometimes you meet somebody and they. Attraction is 10 out of 10 and you can't wait to jump into the other times. People are like start out about five out of 10 and then they go. Oh, maybe on the second day, I'll get up to seven out of 10 and then, but if but if it's only five out of 10 and somebody does something that turns them off like Michelle got quite a sort of aggressive straight cuz she's she can be quite verbally aggressive. Well, yeah cuz I was gonna show us strong woman. It's just really afraid that she's got a wonderful. Assertive side to her and then the thing is feminist women. love you go. Michelle. Oh yeah but she had her arguing style if I was dating someone in their arguing star was like that and very hot headed and they really didn't have the the Intel all the info to back it up like she starts his arguments and she doesn't really quite know what she's gonna say she knows exactly what was going on. Yeah if someone if someone starts telling me that Darwin's hole then I'm just gonna say. Say I'm out so I didn't wanna know about Dallas Doctor Annie as an actual expert. I want you to tell us like in your expert opinion from watching these couples like how many of them are really do you think into their partners like you can read the signs. you know how many of them are faking it how many of them do you think are really actually into it like did Steve ever feel anything for Michelle Jericho not that I could pick up. Yeah. I think they're only genuine attraction is Josh and Cathy I get cuz well done. It's funny like we also that attraction too, but today or tonight, they're talking about how we're worried that we're just in the friend zone. Now I mean that's really come out of nowhere. Did you see that coming? I kind of did because Cathy's got jealous. This is Joshua talking to highly. so I know that she's now maybe put him in a blink and I mean the two of them and slept together, so there's already been intimacy there so to her for her to pull back, obviously the trust trust issues, but I don't really think they can friends on each other after. Yeah, the tournament and living with each other. I feel like contestants on reality TV shows go through a whole gamut, a whole range of emotions in such a condensed period of yeah, McCary you're an expert on such an extra, but it's true That's not talk about but I do like it feels like you know and you know attraction is something that you build on when you meet someone for the first time and with it and when you realize you don't have that attraction straight away, you can walk away from them. but when you're on a TV show and you need a guaranteed three weeks at least a booty Instagram following you are getting to say whatever I feel like. Was I feel like Steve's motivation staying there was less to build an attraction to Michelle, which I think you know when you've got the egg for someone you know, it's not coming back. I think he just wanted to stay on the show. yeah and and you know you get the vibe that Steve dates younger women. Yeah totally really. I love it in your expert opinion. You can say that I love that I have said that from day dot Annie, you are so smart. you're just like me. He also see it. Put your expert mind on this he also strikes me as a type of man that would leave his socks on during and breathe through his teeth. Like Oh, yeah. Oh yeah, I was hoping you would do that impression. You know what it's funny cuz I was really hoping she can actually say I do have to say like that you did it like seven out of 10 back in the room. It was like it was a bit more intense. I'll do a tutorial later on your Instagram. I think we've all been with a guy like that. We've all been really good. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. He totally has a whole market of a man that feels like he's Super. Super attractive to our young ago, Yeah. Yeah. Hi Annie. I recommend might leave it there. Thanks so much for coming on and giving your expert opinion. you're most welcome. Hey guys. we've also got Tim Burton. does it say Annie I'll see you bye. We've also got Tim Ridley. She's a TV presenter, and she also is a night of Lizzie's has returned this series and we wanted to talk to her because you know it's it seems weird that they just brought Lizzy back suddenly and a lot of contestants have come out and started bad mouthing her as well. So. Wanted to get Tans opinion. Get a tan. Hey how you doing great tan So Tim tell us everything you know about Lizzie's comeback. She's really come on. It's a star turn. She's you know doing a bit of a celebrity world through the dinner party. you know when I mean, did she tell you much about you know that she was coming back to the come out of nowhere cuz just you know on the outside. it seemed like it came out of nowhere. What seems like it came out of the two week high. Yeah, but people were leaving she was look she has hinted. Me over the last 12 months that she is going back to do it again cuz she generally does wanna find love and she really felt guilted that her whole process last time was so painted you know one was you know, Fat shaming and the other with you know being ghosted and you know like the whole process and you know these Australian public really toured the pieces the first you know the first season that she was on so she generally wants to find love so this year he naturally used. For it all over again, what I thought was missing there. I mean you're her friend and you saw what happened to what was it not a part of you. That was like girl. Are you mad like run? look there is I mean when it in any of these series, you know they they twist things around to make it look how they want it to look for television but you know just her journey and this is what she wanted to do and I feel like she's not one of these people that goes out to the to find a guide a nightclub or you know like it's a hard process to try and find a guy these days No, I haven't yet. Yes. Okay. Yeah. Oh. so it's on the cards can be meeting here. is that so it's a yet that's hanging in the air. What do you think of said? Do you think he's a good match for her? Does he remind you of sponge Bob Square pants? Yeah. Quickly really different isn't it? Hey look, I think he's I don't know like and this is my personal opinion. I don't know whether he is right for her like he's very out there and I mean like Lizzie's out there, but you know like he's very out there. I don't know whether it's because he to me is like the human equivalent of wallpaper was gonna say cottage cheese good shape so Tammy you saying. I'm really nice guy. I feel like you're questioning the expertise of the experts surely not him. Oh look. I just think she lives. He needs somebody who's really going to nurture like she's been through the ring out over her life. when I I a cleaned on a show that I had a YouTube channel and she let me know you know. that's how we got to know one another because she told her her life story and and now she you know, come to be where she is today and it's really. Like hot hot wrenching so she she just needs a person that's really gonna nurture her. he to me just comes across as somebody that's probably just need to turn it down a little bit for her cuz she does need that little bit of seriousness right. it comes across as a wet rag to me. Yeah, I'm I'm not saying I'm not feeling it and I'm not feeling and she's on the show to find love. really is I mean we all know obviously that she got paid for for coming back because she was a celebrity. Do you have any idea how much they paid her? No No. Nothing like that I don't like we don't that's not something I really talk to her about. I think you know the whole the whole money thing is very private, but no, I haven't notice right cuz that's I mean to go through it again. I think Doctor Tricia said it last night when you know the night before, she said Lizzie had a terrible experience last time she was in the experiment, so we brought it back again. sorry around exactly. Yeah I mean, and she's gone through a big transformation as well, like you said she had a bit of you know bit of a rough truck. The first time she was on, she copped online bullying. She copped a lot of you know, foul words. The public did that have an impact on the on the whole visual change that we've seen well sort of half and half so like I think anything if we if we went on television and we were really killed like she was. I think it's gonna have somebody impact, but the other thing too is that she was very heavily medicated. You know from her conditions during that first when I was filming that episode of that season of my of yeah and when she's now. He's been properly diagnosed and on the proper medication, she actually dropped a lot of weight. so that's why that's why she's dropped so much weight is because of medication that she was on, but also too, I mean I would have looked you know that was me and I looked at myself back on television. I went oh my okay and then you're getting all of these really cool from the from the Australian public about the way you look and you know you look like it's probably a lot of us can relate you know so you know that's gonna have some sort of impact on you mentally as well when you're already you're already suffering mental. Through illness and other things and you know she had suicidal tendencies and all these sort of stuff and so I just need to put a hand break in this as a friend term, if someone is coming from a very vulnerable position, why would you not do it all in your power to stop her from going and putting yourself out like you really have an intervention with her friends and family. So this is again maybe not just you. but I'm just saying cuz you're the friend were talking to you, but like why again, surely there are other more decent honest. Ways of earning a buck than doing this again and finding love for that matter. Yeah, she probably a great like I can't make somebody not do something like yes, you can have that discussion. Did you try What did you actually bring it up with her? And so I think this is a really good journey. You know like I'm not one of these people that go. you shouldn't do that because I don't like that being done to me like as soon as you say to me, you can't do that. you shouldn't do that. that puts a Red flag to my face. You know I wanna go you wanna do it sure and yeah, I mean, do you think do you or do you know that any anyone in her family or any of her closer friends had those words and said, Hey, it's probably not a great idea. I. Like to be honest, I wouldn't have a clue on whether other girlfriends have said to her not to do it. I certainly didn't have that conversation with her because I believe you've gotta have you know your own journey. she generally believed in the process she generally believed in that and why can I ask why like because of all the like success stories that they've been very few like what would make anyone believe in the process? really like? is it like the tooth fairy or like fit tea like what would make someone a skinny me like what would make someone believe in that? I I think it's a lot when you when you're looking for love which I am. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I think you'll then you're very limited on how you can find love. I mean if you're not an app person or you know like finding love on an Apple of going to a pub, then how do you find a guy? How do you find a relationship? honestly think she she was obviously presented this offer from channel nine. You go back on that and she's chosen to do it. um it's the first time around she generally when in that find it thinking well surely they suffer that the second so what is lazy want in life like if you want you say that she wants love from this experiment but what's your goal do what is she want at the end of the day She wants a life partner. Yeah, you know she wants somebody to send cheese. She's even career wise, so she was working. She was working at Samuels the jewelry store before going into this experiment. I mean, is she looking for you know for a place in the spotlight after this I wouldn't say she's not looking for a TV career like you know or anything like that. She's happy with a lot in life. She just wants to be able to share it with somebody. So do you think she'll go back for a third fourth fifth 69, A lot of this will be after this one won't go back again right well. I think I even said it best and he said, Also you just doing one marriage a year. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's right. Tim. Thanks so much for coming on and tell us what's what's taken away in Lizzie's head and why she why she went on the show again for round two thanks for her. Hey, Carrie. I think it's safe to say you're not gonna be getting any sponsorship deals with Skinny me anytime soon. I know that's always been your goal in life and I'm really I'm really I feel so bad. I take it back. I'm really excited What about skinny coffee that you drink enough coffee? Yeah. It's a diary and then you could be a sponge. you could be a sponsor for all the toilet paper is perfect There you go. It's all coming together. Hey guys. we put the question out there in the recap on news dot com today you. I said, would you rather be told you sexually unattractive on National TV or be filmed stockpiling toilet paper and causing causing a riot 30 -, eight percent of people, said they'd rather be told they're sexually unattractive 60 -, two percent of people said they'd rather be filmed buying toilet paper Wow, and can I just say I had the temperature? Check way off in this country. Really you did I'd rather be told him sexually unattractive on TV, then be filmed down at the IGA with a mountain of toilet paper with you, I think That were pulling like people like you and I who are on the dating scene we've been told was sexually attracted so many times it just like I tell me again tell me from the cameras ringing now to the show and tell me it's fun and also it's just one person's opinion who gives a shit. But if someone thinks you're a doomsday prepper and thinks of Corona virus is linked to a lack of toilet paper, Yeah, body shots, and then no one is gonna find you sexually attractive like ever again. At least we still have hope I know, but here's the thing like if when I'm seeing all these photos of all these people with their mountains of do. Vibrant again go to a doctor like me. Yes, you should be seeing a specialist because something's not right now. It's like it's like the whole thing about you know if things don't smell right down there, you know you don't get like a vaginal deodorant and you actually go to a doctor. Why would you wanna mask that you need to stop? Paul Toilet paper run run and we've also had someone say just a PSA guys. Please stop using Handy paper towels as toilet paper because that is just going to lead to another National problem of some kind of yeah pet birds under this suit in the sewage, more genital grazing so we're gonna have a new medical emergency. Until you believe that person obviously forgot the motor wipe to your blade, the handy towels are perfect for that, in fact, if you can use sand paper even better, why do you believe tag? What do you believe? that's not here to make friends but guys we're gonna leave it there. It's Carrie Sackville. Carla Big Nascar thanks and guys. If you know why you're wiping to you bleed maybe you wanna listen to past episodes and not here to make friends just to make it a little easier. You can search us wherever you get your parties from iTunes Spotify while you're there. subscribe right like Subscribe. Tell your mates about us. Me in a job other than that I'll be here on Facebook Live straight after Sunday night's Meredith first side catch it in bye.