“When men imagine a female uprising, they imagine a world in which women rule men as men have ruled women.” Sally Kempton “Meditation for the Love of It”

Please add your voice to the conversation about men's unconscious fears of women in intimate relationships…/mens-fear-of-vulnerability-ca…/

shares Embed from Getty ImagesIt’s pretty clear that women are often afraid of men, and with good reason. Men’s fears of women are less visible, more hidden, from women, from other men, and from ourselves. We’ve done such a good job at hiding our fears and vulnerabilities that even our mothers...

This weeks column is on men and dependency…/the-vulnerability-of-dependen…/

Dependency gets a bad name in our culture, particularly among men.

This week's column is about how to talk responsibly to someone you love…/but-i-was-just-being-honest-w…/

How to talk responsibly to someone you love.

I'm conducting research on men's fears of women in intimate relationships, and I'm looking for men and women interested in talking about their experience.
Please forward this to anyone you think might be interested in participating. Ask them to open the link to this article, and click on the red box at the bottom of the story that says "Join Our Writers Community."…/fear-of-vulnerability-wcz/

Exploring men’s fears of women in intimate relationships.
Being a good listener is important for any relationship. Here are three different types of listening.

My new column for the Good Men Project: "What's Lust Got to Do With it?" a reaction piece to a recent New York Times opinion piece.…/whats-lust-got-to-do-with-it-…/

Does excessive male libido have anything to do with sexual harassment?

A good example of how research can be misleading

Patients and therapists should ignore new guidelines for treating trauma.

I have a new article on the Good Men project website, ” the largest worldwide conversation about what it means to be a good man in the 21st century.” You can find his article at…/im-ok-if-we-are-ok-wcz/.
Please take a look, and share in your network to help me get the word out

Unpacking men's fear of women in intimate relationships.

I'm starting a new book project on "Men's Fears of Women." Would love to hear your thoughts, and please forward it to friends and colleagues

“Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them.” Margaret Atwood

Surprising data about how worried people are about managing their sexual feelings

Nearly two-thirds say people should take extra caution around members of the opposite sex at work.