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Amy Bradley Streich
· October 3, 2016
Our daughter Krysten Heath Garrett and son-in-law Shawn Garrett were wed Saturday Oct 1st at Clay Hill.
I cannot say enough about Debbie Wilson and her crew. We had a ton of stuff to set up and all w...e had to do was drop everything off and tell her what we wanted done and she set everything up from the tables, linens, photo booth, lights, bar, signs, the bride's bouquet and throw away bouquet and the groom's and father's of the bride boutonnieres, etc. After the event she cleaned up and gathered all of our decorations and other items together for us to pick up the next day. Debbie was so easy to work with and very accommodating.

No set up, no clean can't ask for better than that! Well worth the price. A big thank you to Clay Hill!
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Keith Driver
· April 23, 2017
I've attended many weddings at Clay Hill Garden Events over the past several years. This venue never fails to impress me with their authentic rustic atmosphere and 18th century architecture.
Rene Ford
· October 14, 2015
Such a beautiful place! The barn, the landscaping, everything is in place to have the wedding/event of your dreams.
Yvonne Stark Hazard
· May 21, 2017
So pretty and serene, the barn is a very cool place to get married!
Sherri Presson Wells
· August 1, 2013
Debbie is AWESOME to work with. All of her hard work shows the second you drive up to Clay Hill Gardens. Beautiful year 'round. She has her own piece of Heaven in Yale, VA

She created a wedding day... for my daughter that was beyond our biggest dreams. Forever grateful ♥ See More
Jaime Whisenant Power
· March 31, 2014
Ms. Debbie rocks!!!! What an amazing lady. Everything was beautiful and perfect despite the rain. Thank you so much for making the day so special for Tanya and Adam!!!
Rachel E. Luck
· September 26, 2015
Hands down one of the best venues where I've officiated! Great experience and lovely people
Erica Berry
· October 13, 2014
I absolutely loved this place! Attended a wedding and everything was just breathtakingly beautiful! I would recommend to anybody!!
Kevin David Whitley
· September 25, 2016
This place is so beautiful I definitely see why my nephew and his wife chose this place for they're wedding this past Saturday.
Bill Vickers
· December 28, 2015
Beautiful setting, great hostess who is very much an integral part of making the event a success, comfortable amenities. Accommodations suitable for any event.
Maria Theodorakis Evans
· April 27, 2015
Debbie is wonderful to work with! Even though it was raining it still was a beautiful wedding for my son and his beautiful bride!
Randy Poarch Magee
· December 11, 2016
Debbie is a Blessing and an asset to Yale, with her wonderful personality and "can do" positive spirit! Her venue is charming...and any event is sure to be a success in her capable hands!
Beth Moore
· October 19, 2015
Madison and Vincent could not have had a more perfect wedding! Thanks so much to Debbie and team!!!!
Teresa Ferguson
· October 12, 2014
Attended my first wedding at clay hill gardens yesterday witnessing two friends getting married. It was beautiful
Debra Joly Fleming
· June 30, 2014
Clay hill gardens is so beautiful! I went to a friends wedding there and it was wonderful!
Lindsay Delozier
· April 18, 2015
Beautiful place!! And Debbie is so super awesome!
Carolyn Van Dyke Theodorakis
· October 27, 2015
Beautiful venue!..even during a rainy wedding it was terrific!
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Life is so darn good in Yale!
Its a perfect day in Yale, Virginia. You can't see em much but you can sure hear em!!

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Pinoy Rap Radio is with Pethony Hazelman and 38 others.
March 2014

Beautiful advice from a divorced man after 16 years of marriage.

My advice after a divorce following 16 years of marriage, by Gerald Rogers.

Obviously, I’m not ...a relationship expert. But there’s something about my divorce being finalized this week that gives me perspective of things I wish I would have done different… After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had

1. Never stop courting. Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.

2. Protect your own heart. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.

3. Fall in love over and over again. You will constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday. SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.

4. Always see the best in her. Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.

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5. It’s not your job to change or fix her… your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing. And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not.

6. Take full accountability for your own emotions: It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad. You are responsible for finding your own happiness, and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love.

7. Never blame your wife if you get frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your responsibility. When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed. You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them… when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.

8. Allow your woman to just be. When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean. The feminine spirit is about change and emotion and like a storm her emotions will roll in and out, and as you remain strong and unjudging she will trust you and open her soul to you… DON’T RUN-AWAY WHEN SHE’S UPSET. Stand present and strong and let her know you aren’t going anywhere. Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.

9. Be silly… don’t take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh. Laughter makes everything else easier.

10. Fill her soul everyday… learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.

11. Be present. Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. Treat her as you would your most valuable client. She is.

12. Be willing to take her sexually, to carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul. Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully.

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13. Don’t be an idiot…. And don’t be afraid of being one either. You will make mistakes and so will she. Try not to make too big of mistakes, and learn from the ones you do make. You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid.

14. Give her space… The woman is so good at giving and giving, and sometimes she will need to be reminded to take time to nurture herself. Sometimes she will need to fly from your branches to go and find what feeds her soul, and if you give her that space she will come back with new songs to sing…. (okay, getting a little too poetic here, but you get the point. Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids. She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.)

15. Be vulnerable… you don’t have to have it all together. Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes.

16. Be fully transparent. If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING… Especially those things you don’t want to share. It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don’t know i she will like what she finds… Part of that courage is allowing her to love you completely, your darkness as well as your light. DROP THE MASK… If you feel like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be.

17. Never stop growing together… The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards.

18. Don’t worry about money. Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. It never helps when teammates fight. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win.

19. Forgive immediately and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. Don’t let your history hold you hostage. Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back. FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM. Cut the anchor loose and always choose love.

20. Always choose love. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. In the end, this is the only advice you need. If this is the guiding principle through which all your choices is governed, there is nothing that will threaten the happiness of your marriage. Love will always endure.

In the end marriage isn’t about happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come. Marriage is life, and it will bring ups and downs. Embracing all of the cycles and learning to learn from and love each experience will bring the strength and perspective to keep building, one brick at a time.

These are lessons I learned the hard way. These are lessons I learned too late. But these are lessons I am learning and committed in carrying forward. Truth is, I loved being married, and in time, I will get married again, and when I do, I will build it with a foundation that will endure any storm and any amount of time.

If you are reading this and find wisdom in my pain, share it those those young husbands whose hearts are still full of hope, and with those couples you may know who may have forgotten how to love. One of those men may be like I was, and in these hard earned lessons perhaps something will awaken in him and he will learn to be the man his lady has been waiting for.

MEN- THIS IS YOUR CHARGE: Commit to being an EPIC LOVER. There is no greater challenge, and no greater prize. Your woman deserves that from. Be the type of husband your wife can’t help but brag about.

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❝ This couple in this picture who lives happily and contented with each other after the wedding up to this time ❞

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