I think it was a reasonable answer to a direct question in that setting. They didn't say yes, they didn't say no, they told her to do her own research and make up her own mind.

I do agree that people like different things, but its not appropriate to be coaching a 15 yr old into BDSM. Its not something everyone enjoys, and I dont think this employee should be encouraging someone so young. I do support planned parenthood, but this employee is out of line.