Our sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with Nigel's family.
Parents, please talk to your students about Nigel's death. Know and be aware of changes in your child. Talk to them about what they see, words they speak and actions they can take to make a difference. We must be better.
Words from our principal:
...Dear Parents and Guardians:
We were saddened to learn this morning of the death of Nigel Shelby, one of our 9th grade students. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time.
Many students have been affected by this news. Teachers and specially trained counselors have talked with students about Nigel and their feelings. Please be sensitive to any changes in your child’s behavior. Over the next few days, encourage your child to express his or her feelings and listen attentively.
It will be helpful to recognize the various steps we will go through in the grieving process: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Some of the common reactions that children experience when reacting to a traumatic event are:
Restlessness, nervous behavior
Trouble concentrating
Difficulty sleeping, nightmares
“Clingy” behavior, fear of being alone
Asking questions over and over again
Remembering previous losses and events
If you have any concerns regarding your child’s reactions to this loss, feel free to contact any of your child’s teachers, the school counselor, or our administrative staff.
Thank you for your thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Very Respectfully,
Aaron King, Ed.S
Principal Huntsville High