So you know that thing where a supermajority of humans seem to *actually believe*
that sex will be better/more pleasurable with a partner whose face is pretty
like that "pretty face" is the thing to optimize for when attempting to tweak how intercourse will feel
...or like even "pretty body"
what
uh
what's up with that
it's clearly wrong
(don't give me the evopsych explanation; I get it; I know it's largely true; why are we still *listening* to the garbage our brains are giving us now that we know it's garbage; why are we endorsing and reinforcing *other* people in listening to the garbage *their* brains are giving *them*)