I've been asked several times like what's what's been the hardest Red table that you've ever done and I haven't had one until today this has been difficult for three families and it's been rough I've known Jordan Woods her whole life many don't know this but her father John Woods was a sound engineer on the fresh Prince of Bell air or its entire run where he and will became friends their sons josh Woods and tray became very close and through many play dates between them jaden and Jordan ended up becoming true day ones by forging a close lifelong bond since they were infants these friendships made the Woods family and extension of ours during medical school Jane became a bridge of friendship between Jordan and kylie jenner and the two became inseparable the friendships between jaden Jordan and kylie for three families together were many bonds will meet in February guests at a House party reported that Jordan an nba star tristan Thompson the father of chloe kardashian s daughter were making out and that Jordan spent the night within the immediate online and media backlash that follow has forced three families the Woods And generous and the smiths into a painful and very public incident so in Jordan reached out to me and asked me if I would help her story to be heard I invited her to the Red table to figure out how to deal heal and move forward this is real grown woman stuffing yeah cuz we've all been here in some form as women we've all let our little girl behavior get us into some grown women mess okay this is grown woman Mass on another level yeah oh wait Well I didn't think I'd be coming to the table like this but it's the best place to be that table has mythological cleansing and healing power I believe that I would have loved to be there there's a lot of things about our relationship to our family joy's father worked on fresh Prince before she was born and I know how hard it was for you and your family when he passed and I was watching you grow and become a woman and I had deep sense that we would be here one day and what I want to say to you is that the world attacks it just happens you'll never get around the world attacking but I want you to know that you are supported and I got you and we got you yeah and that means the world to me yeah you didn't know me before I knew myself yeah babe do you have any fatherly advice with They take your medicine and tell your truth this is a part of what growing up is this is a part of what learning is part of the lesson yeah it's like this world is not going to break you we won't allow it yeah oh I love you thank you love you baby alright thank you bye bye That's real talk yeah well let us go do it let's go alright give me a hug you heard what will say we got you I don't even know it began well I'm gonna start with I have known Jordan Woods for her entire life And I just want everybody to know that anybody that's coming to the table today needs to understand that a we're dealing with a really sensitive subject we need to deal with it with compassion and anybody who wants to come to the table and act like they haven't done something in their life that they wish they could have done different if you feel as though you don't have any skeletons in your closet if you Feel holier than though this might not be the place for you and that's okay but I've been here several times and the best way to deal with this kind of stuff is just a complete The first thing that I want to Make sure you and I have clarity about is that there's a family that feels betrayed by you Then you clear about that right I want to give you the opportunity to tell your truth but I want you to tell it through the lens of what your part has been because that's the only part you can change and that's the only part that you can be responsible for heal from and make amends So Let's start with what happened Sunday night I went to dinner with some friends and I went to this bar after there was a party going on I was minding my business dancing drinking tristan was there he was doing his own thing that was it after the normal culture when you're young go to the bar go to the club it ends early we all go to a House after we're not thinking about who's House or where it's at we're just you know we're having fun we're in the moment a group of girls that I'm I like you know we're gonna go to a House on the way out they're saying it's tristan salsa I'm like cool that's okay feels like a safe environment I'd rather it be his House then a random stranger like he didn't even personally invite me there it wasn't like come see me it was like oh I'm hopping in the car I'm coming with you all y'all go in here cool I know him even better right we pull up we walk in not once was I aware of anyone's phone or told them to take away my phone I was not paying I don't I don't have anything to hide So when it comes to the phones being taken away I have no clue who told them take away the phone anything all I know is I had my own way and you know we're all dancing and drinking and we're all enjoying the time and I'm not thinking I shouldn't be here right and that's my first step where I went wrong and how I would feel If someone close to me is is hanging on my ex House or yes the father my child I wouldn't I didn't think about that that's the first part of the problem to using nano saying I should have been there in the first place yeah that's the first step is I should have gone home after the party they shouldn't even have been there right but you know the nights the nights going on Never once was I giving him a lap dance making out with him sitting all over him it's just we're all together we're in a group never once did we leave the public area go to bedroom go to bathroom we're all in plain site and you have other girls with you yes okay why do you think no one else has stepped up to defend I want people to stand up and be accountable but I don't want anyone to feel what I'm feeling yeah I get it cuz let me tell you I've been here yeah I get it and it's hard for people it is in this Right or wrong to it is just hard because is he and why do they owe me that much right facts would from the night was suggest that there was a lap dance of some kind no this seems completely crazy to me that anybody says there is a lap dance involved because there was no audience involved but what I can think as to why someone would say that there was a chair here a couch in another chair got it it's all fields got it so he's sitting in this chair and there's an arm of the chair that goes up about here okay and I'm sitting on the Of the chair so he come into the party and you look and you see me sitting on the chair in my head this is innocent you know like we're all drinking world children there's no way it would look like a lap dance but I could see why people would say oh they're getting cozy hm did you have your arm around them no okay but my legs were were laying right over his God it my butt was never sitting on him but your legs were so he bought my legs were dangling down so I picked him up and I put them over to Onto his legs onto the bottom of his legs yes onto the bottom of his legs there stories that she was sitting on his lap she was dangling in his his crotch area shoot that is not the truth but if you're looking for a story I can understand why that would be the story right so there wasn't any like intimate little chuckle chuckle giggle giggle you and his ear him in your ear I mean as We all were just dancing and having fun everyone at the party so we're in this person to this person but never anything intimate never anything like and he didn't make any moves on you throughout the night no okay he didn't try to take me to a room you didn't try it we were all it was just an innocent time but you could see how that could see and that's where I will take responsibility to wear I can't be doing that and right right especially with the partner of a woman who considers you a sister and they already have because So much history involves yeah I wasn't thinking right yeah that's I take full responsibility for that because the other difficult part was like okay Jordan left at seven AM and you know it's hard for people to believe that nothing happened I and I understand why why but In my life in my world it makes sense the two nights before I had been on kind of a partying binge worthy that wasn't the first place I say till six in the morning right there was always somebody there while I was there even up until the moment that you left even up until the moment that I left there were people there I finally look outside and I'm like look the Sun is coming up I need to take myself home right and you know I tell everyone I'm leaving until trusted I'm leaving and he's like are you sure you know it's fine you can you can be safe here and I'm like you know what I mean My car is outside I had to drive outside it's been waiting so this is where the story gets tricky because I feel like I can't point fingers nap don't do it and I can't say this you devise or you because I allowed myself to be in that position that part right there I allowed myself to be there and I never was deliberately drunk to where I can't remember what happened so you never had a blackout moment no I was never blacked out but there was alcohol there was alcohol so how drunk were you I was drunk okay I was not See I was drunk but I was not beyond the point of recollection I know where I was but on the way out he did kiss me and we mean by kiss it's just no passion no nothing on the way up he just kissed me in and like a punk is like a peck on the lips pack on a like no it was like a kiss on the lips but no tongue case no making out that nothing and I don't think that he's wrong either because I allowed myself to be in that position and when Housing people make you know dumb moves and people get caught up in the moment or who knows where you shot I didn't know how to feel I was like that didn't just happen cuz you know I was leaving already so I walked out immediately after I got in the car and I was like no that didn't happen and so you left immediately did you say it did you say anything to him like I was just like I need to go I was in shock I was more so like did this really you know I don't I was like let me just pretend like that didn't happen right did you have any understanding possibly of why he would do that or I'm there until the sun's kinda right it's like he's laying right now maybe let me just let me just get my shot so he went home and what happened next I went home I had talk to kylie and khloe in the morning and I told him I was there and I had talked to chloe and she you know asked me what was going on is everything fine and in my head of trying to forget that part of the story I was just like you S No he was he was chilling everything was okay like there were girls there but he wasn't you know all over the girls what exactly were you not honest about I was on this about being there but I wasn't honest about the actions that had taken place did you think you would try to protect their relationship at the time I just knew how much turmoil was going on that I was like let me not just throw more fuel on the fire I know I was trying to protect cloe s heart yeah she doesn't deserve this either right you know people have even dehumanize her in this situation to where they don't they can't feel for her right and it's not fair that she has to deal with this either in the last thing I wanted to do was be that person I'm no home record right I would never try to hurt someone's home right especially someone that I love right and someone who I've seen has a beautiful daughter I never was How to steal someone's man I don't need your situation I really just hurt so many more people by not telling the truth do you feel as though you are the reason why tristan and chloe are not together I know I'm not the reason that trusted employer not together now this situation may have made it harder for her to want to be And I understand that but I know I'm not the reason if I'm gonna ask you straight up okay did you sleep with tristan never got never thought in a very consideration never happened it never will lie and that's why I'm willing to to be put up to the test right attached me to a lie detect or whatever it is I need people to know the truth and more important I need the people involved to know the truth got it just to clarify there has been no communication with tristan no relationship overtime you guys didn't have a relationship for months there's been no relationship okay no communication now plans on meeting up no conversation nothing okay do I have been around for almost a decade I'm here to protect him never hear to hurt Anyone and I think if that was the case I I wouldn't have been friends with these people for so long right now you know I have to deal with my family and all the people I hurt that family also has to deal with the hurt right this story that didn't have to be what it was turned into the biggest scandal or betrayal of the year because I've seen what has been done to my life in only a week base on how the media circulates why they don't put their focus on the real world problems they're putting their focus On a young black woman who made a mistake And not a mistake that's worth public crucifixion it's a mistake that should have been dealt with internally you know what they say black women can be the most disregarded disrespected creatures on the Earth you know being a black woman in the game for so long as I've been just seeing that without people even having hurt your side just not given the benefit of the doubt it just always seems like it's so easy to just target black women put everything on us even if there's other people involved so and Took me to be here getting here to feel it because I saw it but I never felt it right I think that's one of the reasons why uncle will felt like it was important for him to hold you through this because we all make mistakes and that's not to justify anything that you've done but it is to say that I really felt like you needed an opportunity to tell your story at least and then people can Sad whatever you believe whatever they believe given the chance right and this is what the world does and this is when you just When you can just get those arms around and the creator is the arms that I thought would be around me are nowhere to be found right the first few days of this were definitely the heart as I couldn't eat I didn't eat for days I couldn't look at my phone even I would just try to sleep and and hope that I would wake up and this wouldn't be true in every day was a new headline every time you refresh the page it's another person bullying me or wishing death upon me or telling me something like your father deserved to die I may have done something wrong but whatever I did I don't think I deserve this right it's just it's not fair if I was a weak person I would have hurt myself it's even hard for me to say this because It's like you know Everyone's safety is is now we can't leave the House my brother can't go to work like my sister can't go to school she's 12 years old my mom can't even go to the grocery store I'm not here to play the victim right I'm here to take responsibility And when I was asked about what happened that night I didn't tell the truth to the people that I loved not because of malicious intent but because I was just scared each step what would you have done differently I would not have gone with those girls to an after party and just not allow myself to be in positions to wear I also allow things to happen and if I would have told the truth from the beginning what I was there we were drunk this happened yeah then I wouldn't be in this position today I got caught up in the lifestyle right of who I thought I wanted to be right or just With the flow of wildlife was taking me having to deal with losing my dad in such a crucial age in my life such a young age to where I think I know what I'm doing but I have no idea what the hell I'm doing you know I've had to learn a lot about the power of telling the truth even in this stage of my life you know because truth get deeper and deeper okay you learn that as you go we love to think we have to think that we're also Super honest and that it's easy to tell Shoes but specifically when I was your age I had no idea how to tell the choose or to even understand the power of telling the truth I have to tell many lies is the truth is always better yeah it's always better but I have to tell many lies and get the consequence of tom's live learn you rather take the pain of telling the truth then having to take the pain of telling a lie and then take the pain of having to rehabilitate whatever that lie has created trust is already for trust is broken and we talk I have I told her I was coming to the table today I think at this point if it's gone too far and enough is enough and when the safety of the people I love is in jeopardy I have to speak right have you had an opportunity to talk to chloe since then or have any kind of communication with her I have spoken a little bit with her I let her know that I'm willing to do whatever it takes for her peace of mind not for my image right not for my career because that's already something in its own yet if this is now right for your peace Mind so you know that there was no malicious intent you do understand that from her point of view somebody who has embraced you like a sister that this could be a really really tough one to swallow even in understanding exactly what happened attached me to a lie detector whatever it is I need the people involved to know the truth got it I'm willing to take Responsibility I'm not asking for people to like me I'm not asking for you to forgive me overnight I'm just asking for you to hear me and to feel me I just think giving everybody their process that's what I've tried to do some sort of you guys too I know you'll have to continue to because it takes many attempts and just allowing hurts to heal little by little in order for people to feel safe enough to open enough to invite a repair I've had to learn that with people that I've heard and people who hurt me sometimes it takes years sometimes it takes weeks sometimes it takes days but when there's a lot of love there there's always a path and possibility towards healing and I know that there's a lot of love between you and that family can we have the fish Bowl Alright I'm gonna pick this snow you picked the guest that's how I usually do it okay okay it's hailey from brooklyn New York is this a publicity sent a lot of people think this is all just for the new season Unfortunately Taylor I wish I could say this was a publicity stunt but it's my real life and real people are hurting it's been real light it's been a while Let's see let me take one Lauren from Texas did you apologize to chloe I did yeah I did as much apologizing as I could do over the phone over text and until I get the opportunity to talk face to face cuz she really feel you know what I'm saying but I reached out and the opportunities there I offered as much as I could a lie detector test anything whatever makes you feel better is what I want but at least they know It's there in the process of her processing I can't see my family get hurt anymore got it so that's why I had to break my silence out of you know been respectful through this whole thing I haven't been commenting back I've been you know constantly being ridiculed and bullied and I still held my dignity and I haven't even been bullied from people that you know just a week before we're telling me you know how much they love me or some of the other and I just I'm more so the person where I get Everyone's true colors now as well as you have my phone number you could have called you know but or texted me a mean text but I guess if everything social now it's that's how people handle things you know I have to respect that too but through that I'm not gonna be the person that cut back or to respond out of respect for the fact that this is a real situation right this is real life it's not a game yeah this is not a drill A drill okay and I can tell you one thing 90 percent of these people were not my friend 90 percent not 20 right 90 but this has been deeper than just coming here it's because your family and it's someone that even if this was the truth there was no judgement and you are willing to just you know talk to me that means the world to me so I'm happy I love I I'm happy because now I feel like I'm free yeah I love you I love you I'm proud of you thank you all will be well real talk real talk you'd be really grew up in like the last light yeah and to you guys you know To the t family specifically I ask for compassion and I ask that we raise this young lady up with love and kindness help her heal and she is learning and growing from this particular incident and I just ask that we support her in that journey of growth cuz that's what we do here at the R t family no so there you go I love you mom Ready to do this is a place where people can talk honestly why would you think somebody else knows how to make you up if you don't know what makes you happy I was doing the drugs it was a nightmare once you say I want a divorce to take it back yeah why can't I help a victory so black people because I like best real talk S